Stringing me along or wants me back
OK I posted about this a few days ago. Girlfriend of 5 months broke it of 2 and a bit weeks ago because her parents cannot accept me different culture, she basically can only date if there is possibility for marriage.
I really care about her and for the last 2 weeks have been showing it with texts and when she calls, even dropped her a card or 2. She has been pretty distant hiding her feelings I think?
So anyway I messaged and called her Monday and she ignored me all day she than called me back the next day said she was bored. I acted disinterested, told her how I felt and hung up. That night she called me like 8 times more so than she has in the past 2 weeks. Asking what's wrong and should she stop contact with me? I said I did not care what she did and said I had to go. She texts me back saying this is not going to work and she has to change her number. I said do what makes you happy. I did not contact normally I would send a nice late night message.
The next evening she calls me like 5 times before I answer said she felt bad saying it over a message and that was I OK with it if she changes her number and deletes her Facebook? I told her I cared and wanted to be with her all that stuff. But she had to do what she had to do.
The question is why does she keep asking me? Is she trying to make me chase again, is it a test? Does she want me back? Help! I know she cares.
Can't let go cause I know she still wants me
OK I have posted about this 2 weeks ago. She broke up with me 4 weeks ago now. Her family are very strict and she has to marry in her culture. So they told her to leave me and she agreed.
Anyway last week I decided to go no contact she called after 2 days saying she still wants to talk to me as a friend, I told her that's too hard than she says she misses me and wants to be in my arms. So the next day I ask her to come shopping with me and over the course of 5 min she says yes no about 30 times till finally she says no, very cold and that she will go tomorrow and says bye. Now I'm hurting.
How can I possibly get her to come back to me I miss her and lover her so much, but her parents have great control over her! Its all so very confusing and hurting! Every time I do no contact she gets upset and makes me feel guilty!
I can't seem to let go... :( My heart hurts a lot now and I can't think I just want her back!