Am I doing the right thing?
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Hello,
My Ex boyfriend dumped me about 4 months ago. Sadly, Im still not over him (we were together for 1 year). I have been doing all the wrong things to try and get him back. I am a very honest person and I have had no problem telling him how I feel, I have been reacting off my emotions. I was texting him all the time ( I know its really pathetic) We were trying to be friends but it I so hard for me to look at him like a friend. About a week ago I asked him if he moved on. He says he has. So I told him I wanted to move on too. I told him that I needed to take some time to get my heart back. I really looked at myself and saw that I have lost some dignity, I wasn't the person I was before I met him. So I cut off all contact completely. Its only been a week! But this is a MAJOR accomplishment for me (I have never went over a week without talking to him and I am very proud of myself.)
SOOO he has been texting me every other day(during that week on no contact). Now that I am not texting him, he says things like "I love you so much an miss you but I just can't say those things to you"... then he says "your the best and you deserve the best and right now im not the best for you" He will say Hi and I won't respond. Then the next day he says OK "I will give your space and call you in a week I guess". Im confused I thought he moved on. Now that Im trying to move on he wants to send me these random messages. I feel like Im getting the upper hand and the tables are starting to to turn.
Am I right? Do you think he will eventually try to come back If I don't contact him?
Ex says we were getting to serious
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Me and my ex broke up a while ago. I still love him and I want to be with him. He says he broke up with me because he got to settled and that made him paranoid and anxious. He says he wants to be with me but he can't right now. What should I do? Should I stop talking to him? ( by the way: Im 22 and he's 23)