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She gives me mixed signals, and it seem like shae only wanted to be bothered on her time. She only calls me when she needs me. When I need her, she complains when I ask for a little of her time to comfort me, what should I do leave or stay. I really love her but, I fed up with the games.

You are her safety net. She knows that you will always be there to to listen and comfort her no matter what she does to you. But to answer your question LEAVE!!

If she is your ex, she should be your ex. She shouldn't be coming to you for help and you shouldn't be depending upon her to be there when you need her.

There is a reason why some people are in our pasts - because they don't fit in our futures.

Leave your ex in the past and go on into your bright, shiny future.

It is only for your own good. Don't worry about if she loves you or not. She's your ex.

Don't make yourself so available to her. spitvenom is right. You are her safety net. Don't settle for that

Okay thanks for the advice

Leave and put a pad lock on that chapter of your life. Time to start a new one.

I also thinks she is using me for money, because she calls when her phone bill is due or if she needs some money, then she acts like a , and rude to me

Every time I tell my ex I'm leaving her and not to call me anymore, she stops calling for maybe a week. Then out of the blue she calls and ask me how I'm doing or anything. Then the next thing is she needs something. So I ask her what, and she tells me then I do it for her, then she acts weird again, or acts like she does not care. Sometimes I feel she has a pride issue. I really think she does not respect me, and she won't until I leave her alone.

Rich stop giving her money. She is using you and probably laughing at you when you aren't there.

So... leave her alone...

Not sure why you are doing this to yourself as the solution is pretty obvious.

We were together for four years, and she never had sex with me. When I asked she had a excuse, or would try to say that's all I wanted from her to get me to stop asking. She told me to jack off, or do what I do. She acted like she was too good for me or something

Stop picking up the phone!

Im 20 years old, I work and attend msu, and I'm in the engineering program, I have my oan house, cars, starting my own business, I have a bright future, and I wanted to share my success with her, when I asked her why does she love me, she could not even give me a answer, but when I tell her how I feel, she does not want to hear it at all. I'm tired of the bull, but I really do love her and I know I need to let go,a and I need to stop holding on, somebody help me from this hell hole.

Ask yourself this question every time you think of her or get sad that she is not with you. Why do I want to be with a person who doesn't want to be with me?

Hello rich:

Why?? Gimme her number and I'll ask her.

But, before I do, I want to know why you stayed?

excon

We tell the ladies this all the time- if the other person isn't interested in maintaining the relationship, why are you staying in it? It sounds like she's using you since she only calls when she needs something. You sound like a swell guy, maybe a little gullible, but she's taking advantage of you. Move on because I'm sure there's a woman out there that will appreciate you.

Is this the same girl that calls you now when she needs money? It sounds to me like she's not even worth the time and energy of trying to figure out. She sounds totally selfish!

Well... you can either ask her directly what's going on... or just don't bother picking up the phone. Unless you want to keep going the way it's going.

I'm surprised that you lasted this long. She doesn't seem to like to give you straight answers. You don't need to think about your ex anymore. Go find another girl. Plenty of fish in the sea.

Yea the same one

She knows that other girls try to talk to me,and she do not like that. She calls the females es and say they just tryna use me. And says she is not gone come second to anybody.

Stop making new topics

I've noticed you have a lot of threads regarding this same girl. We are definitely here to help you, but in order to get over her you're going to have to stop answering the phone when she calls. Just leave her alone. It will give you time to heal and save you some money. It sounds to me like you were too good for her. She doesn't deserve you.

You right I just have to let go, thanks so much

You right, I'm letting go, even though I love her I'm leaving for good

You're welcome! Hang in there. I don't know how long ago you two broke up but you'll find someone who treats you the way you deserve to be treated. Just take some time now to have fun with friends, take up a new hobby, join a gym, things like that.

Okay I already do that, thanks so much for your time, it helped me a lot, because I did not know what I was gone do. But I already know I should have been let go, but I judt didn't now I know its time.

not a problem. That's what we're here for. =)

Yep when, she call I'm just not gone answer anymore, I'm tired of getting treated like I isn't , I deserve better, I been too good to put up with her .

Like Zoe said, time to move on. Go to no contact, stick to that. Go out, meet new people, someone who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. This girl is a cold fish, throw her back into the water.

She is jealous and insecure.. she probably thinks one of those girls likes you, and she might be right..
Girls are sneaky, it wouldn't be a surprise if one of them was trying to win you over. And most likely your not noticing it, but your girl is because she knows how girls think..

But still, sounds like she is jealous and insecure...

Hey, do you know if she was a virgin.. (im now to your threads so I don't know much)... because if she was a virgin then maybe she was saving herself for marriage because that can be a strong motivation to not have sex...

Basically she is using you... she knows you still have feelings for her so she uses it to her advantage to make you do things for her...

Seriously, she thinks you will be always there for her..

My opinion, you should stand up to yourself and leave her.. because her true character is the person she is after she gets what she wants...

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basically she is using you... she knows you still have feelings for her so she uses it to her advantage to make you do things for her...

Seriously, she thinks you will be always there for her..

My opinion, you should stand up to yourself and leave her.. because her true character is the person she is after she gets what she wants........

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I agree...

Haven't learned to say NO, yet have you?

Hey richboyjohnson...
Im sorry but posts number 31 and 32 were not meant for this thread.. Im not so sure how they got on this..

Anyway.. it seems like you know what you have to do.. so I hope your doing it...

Its good to see you got some strength in you and know what's right..
Take care

Unspeaken, all his threads were merged as they all discussed the same topic. As a result, all answers to the threads where merged as well.

Hope that clears it up. :)

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Unspeaken, all his threads were merged as they all discussed the same topic. As a result, all answers to the threads where merged as well.

Hope that clears it up. :)

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Yes it does! Thanks:)



Richboyjohnson I hope your doing fine..
Take care