Hi I been with boyfriend for just over a year. And his ex has come back on the scene and I knew he still had feeling for her, but she lives in Ellesmere and we live in Wrexham. He doesn't know what to do, he loves me to pieces, and I love him to pieces. I can give him everything he wants. This all happened before Christmas. I was just wandering how do I find out who he has chosen, as he still comes round, and says he loves me, but he has cut back on how much he texts me, please help

Why don't you be straightforward and directly ask him...

Cause I don't want to push him away

Yes.. speak to him...

Why would u push him away if u just asked him directly?

From a lad point of view how would I tell if he had chosen me

Cause I may upset him

Why are u unsure whether he has chosen you?

Cause he doesn't tx me much

This way you are not pushing him away but only stopping the problems which can arise for you in coming future. Its better to face the reality than to close your eys and sit.

How can I tell if he chosen me

But I have had fortune told and been told that we will end up getting married

How would I tell if he didn't love me

How would I tell if he didn't truly mean it when he tells me he love me

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but i have had fortune told and been told that we will end up getting married

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WHat?

Welll has he chosed me for fortune teller to tell me we will get married

I wouldn't base anything on a fortune tellers reading...
Doesn't sound like you are confident in this relationship
Communication is the key!

Welll I do believe fortune tellers as it always comes true I am confident I trust and love him and I no he feels same about me but just not confident he has left her in the past

When you are saying you are neot confident about his past then it clearly means that you lack confidence in him. Better don’t get things mixed and let anyone play with your emotions in future. What is the harm in asking, if he really loves you he will give the answer and would not mind anything.

I am confident in him well I no he loves me as he has posted on face book for everyone to see before he deleted his account

I don't no but I could be wrong however it seems like you need signs of love to feel loved...

Speak to him

Well he came round yesterday before he went to football cause he lives with his parents but I live on me own use imagination what happened then before he went he gave me a hug kiss and said he loved me

What would be perfect night on valentines day for you so I can have some ideas for me boyfriend

How old are you both?

I am twenty twenty one in November he is twenty one and twenty two in April

If you want good advice you probably want to go into a bit more detail. Maybe right more than one sentence? Go into more depth. Don't worry nobody cares who you are here. We only care about helping you.

True! :)

What more detail do you want to no

A romantic home cooked meal?
With candles, wine and maybe a dvd ?

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wat more detail do you want to no

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Look at other threads in the forum and you will see what detail is. I'm sorry but we can't give you good advice if you don't open up and WRITE!

More input would help

We can't give you good advice if you don't give us INFORMATION about both of you. You see, people are different and have all sorts of likes and dislikes. Perhaps if you go into a bit more detail we can give you usefeul tips.

True, I just suggested what first came to my mind

Are you drunk? We'd love to help but look at the other threads.. if you don't provide more than a few sentences we can't really help you much--as much as we wanted to.

We both like movies we don't ;like dgoing out drinking

What if he busy on valentine night

A nice dinner and a romantic movie is a good start.

Why busy?
Busy working? Busy doing what?

Well... leave the bottle of wine out and enjoy juice or water

Busy with family as his mum may expect him to babysit while she goes out

Well all I want to no is how to tell if a lad truly loves a girl