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  • Jan 12, 2009, 03:33 AM
    LOUNTASH
    Boyfriend trouble
    Hi I been with boyfriend for just over a year. And his ex has come back on the scene and I knew he still had feeling for her, but she lives in Ellesmere and we live in Wrexham. He doesn't know what to do, he loves me to pieces, and I love him to pieces. I can give him everything he wants. This all happened before Christmas. I was just wandering how do I find out who he has chosen, as he still comes round, and says he loves me, but he has cut back on how much he texts me, please help
  • Jan 12, 2009, 03:51 AM
    juhi2011

    Why don't you be straightforward and directly ask him...
  • Jan 12, 2009, 03:53 AM
    LOUNTASH
    Cause I don't want to push him away
  • Jan 12, 2009, 03:54 AM
    Krs
    Yes.. speak to him...
  • Jan 12, 2009, 03:56 AM
    Krs
    Why would u push him away if u just asked him directly?
  • Jan 12, 2009, 03:56 AM
    LOUNTASH
    From a lad point of view how would I tell if he had chosen me
  • Jan 12, 2009, 03:57 AM
    LOUNTASH
    Cause I may upset him
  • Jan 12, 2009, 03:57 AM
    Krs
    Why are u unsure whether he has chosen you?
  • Jan 12, 2009, 03:58 AM
    LOUNTASH

    Cause he doesn't tx me much
  • Jan 12, 2009, 04:01 AM
    juhi2011

    This way you are not pushing him away but only stopping the problems which can arise for you in coming future. Its better to face the reality than to close your eys and sit.
  • Jan 12, 2009, 04:01 AM
    LOUNTASH

    How can I tell if he chosen me
  • Jan 12, 2009, 04:02 AM
    LOUNTASH
    But I have had fortune told and been told that we will end up getting married
  • Jan 12, 2009, 04:06 AM
    LOUNTASH

    How would I tell if he didn't love me
  • Jan 12, 2009, 04:12 AM
    LOUNTASH
    Does he love me
    How would I tell if he didn't truly mean it when he tells me he love me
  • Jan 12, 2009, 04:13 AM
    Krs
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by LOUNTASH View Post
    but i have had fortune told and been told that we will end up getting married

    WHat?
  • Jan 12, 2009, 04:14 AM
    LOUNTASH

    Welll has he chosed me for fortune teller to tell me we will get married
  • Jan 12, 2009, 04:16 AM
    Krs
    I wouldn't base anything on a fortune tellers reading...
    Doesn't sound like you are confident in this relationship
    Communication is the key!
  • Jan 12, 2009, 04:18 AM
    LOUNTASH

    Welll I do believe fortune tellers as it always comes true I am confident I trust and love him and I no he feels same about me but just not confident he has left her in the past
  • Jan 12, 2009, 04:23 AM
    juhi2011
    When you are saying you are neot confident about his past then it clearly means that you lack confidence in him. Better don’t get things mixed and let anyone play with your emotions in future. What is the harm in asking, if he really loves you he will give the answer and would not mind anything.
  • Jan 12, 2009, 04:28 AM
    LOUNTASH

    I am confident in him well I no he loves me as he has posted on face book for everyone to see before he deleted his account
  • Jan 12, 2009, 04:31 AM
    Krs
    I don't no but I could be wrong however it seems like you need signs of love to feel loved...

    Speak to him
  • Jan 12, 2009, 04:34 AM
    LOUNTASH

    Well he came round yesterday before he went to football cause he lives with his parents but I live on me own use imagination what happened then before he went he gave me a hug kiss and said he loved me
  • Jan 12, 2009, 04:41 AM
    LOUNTASH
    Lads and valentines nigh
    What would be perfect night on valentines day for you so I can have some ideas for me boyfriend
  • Jan 12, 2009, 04:42 AM
    Krs
    How old are you both?
  • Jan 12, 2009, 04:43 AM
    LOUNTASH

    I am twenty twenty one in November he is twenty one and twenty two in April
  • Jan 12, 2009, 04:43 AM
    expat2009

    If you want good advice you probably want to go into a bit more detail. Maybe right more than one sentence? Go into more depth. Don't worry nobody cares who you are here. We only care about helping you.
  • Jan 12, 2009, 04:43 AM
    Krs
    True! :)
  • Jan 12, 2009, 04:44 AM
    LOUNTASH

    What more detail do you want to no
  • Jan 12, 2009, 04:55 AM
    Krs
    A romantic home cooked meal?
    With candles, wine and maybe a dvd ?
  • Jan 12, 2009, 04:56 AM
    expat2009
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by LOUNTASH View Post
    wat more detail do you want to no

    Look at other threads in the forum and you will see what detail is. I'm sorry but we can't give you good advice if you don't open up and WRITE!
  • Jan 12, 2009, 04:57 AM
    Krs
    More input would help
  • Jan 12, 2009, 04:58 AM
    expat2009

    We can't give you good advice if you don't give us INFORMATION about both of you. You see, people are different and have all sorts of likes and dislikes. Perhaps if you go into a bit more detail we can give you usefeul tips.
  • Jan 12, 2009, 04:59 AM
    Krs
    True, I just suggested what first came to my mind
  • Jan 12, 2009, 05:00 AM
    expat2009

    Are you drunk? We'd love to help but look at the other threads.. if you don't provide more than a few sentences we can't really help you much--as much as we wanted to.
  • Jan 12, 2009, 05:00 AM
    LOUNTASH

    We both like movies we don't ;like dgoing out drinking
  • Jan 12, 2009, 05:00 AM
    LOUNTASH
    What if he busy on valentine night
  • Jan 12, 2009, 05:01 AM
    expat2009

    A nice dinner and a romantic movie is a good start.
  • Jan 12, 2009, 05:01 AM
    Krs
    Why busy?
    Busy working? Busy doing what?

    Well... leave the bottle of wine out and enjoy juice or water
  • Jan 12, 2009, 05:04 AM
    LOUNTASH

    Busy with family as his mum may expect him to babysit while she goes out
  • Jan 12, 2009, 05:05 AM
    LOUNTASH

    Well all I want to no is how to tell if a lad truly loves a girl

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