Do you agree "Best revenage on the ex is to live well" ?
I always hear that "The best revenge ever on the Ex that dumped you is simply, LIVING WELL". Do you agree ? Any comments on this ?
How can I let my ex know that I'm doing well without him if we're thousand miles apart ? Will he feel curious about me if I leave him in the dark and be silent so he cannot find out anything about me ?
The difference between silent treatment and no contact after breakup ?
I often hear giving your ex the silent treatment. Is that the same as n/c ?
My b/f broke up with me 3 months ago and we have no contact completely for 8 weeks. He did not acknowledge my birthday, when I sent him email & text to wish him Merry Xmas, he did not respond. Our breakup was not overly negative, and is not we grew out of love. I first initiated the breakup due to misunderstanding, I regret it, and wanted to get back together, but he didn't want to give us a second chance. We were together for 6 years, we love each other very much, but we just cannot be together anymore, he had to let go of the relationship is more for my sake and happiness. We still have feelings for each other even though we're apart. But I just don't understand how can he be so cold to me after the breakup ? How can he acts like this to someone that he has loved for so many years ?
How can I shake off the thought of my ex
I'm feeling very sad today, I don't know why, the thought of my ex keeping coming to my head, I can't seem to shake it off. It has been 3 months since he broke up with me. I've tried almost everything to block the thought of him, I went out shopping, watched TV, listened to music, walked/played with my dog, talked to friends, etc... no help... I'm just not in the mood of doing anything tody, I don't feel like talking to anyone... I've tried so hard to think of all the reasons he wasn't good for me...
I thought I've been doing OK lately, although I still think of him everyday, but today the feeling of missing him so much is unbearable, I have the urge of contacting him... but I know I can't.
Please help me! How can I shake off the thought of him?? Why am I feeling this way??
Do ex b/f ever miss or think about their ex g/f ?
I keep reading on this site about the NC thing... like u need to give your ex b/f time to miss you, and to give yourself time to heal... I agree with that, but I;m curious, I actually don't really think that they miss you at all... from the guys' perspective, do you ever think about your exes? Do guys move on faster?
Is it harder to move on in a situation like this ?
If two people are very much in love, they were together for 6 - 7 years. He had to end the relatsionhip because of some unresolved circumstances which involve family backgroud, etc. Even after the breakup and n/c, still have very strong feeling for each other and still very much in love. I'm finding it very hard to move on knowing that he still love me, we have to be apart not because he cheated on me nor going for another woman, but we are kind of forced to end it. At this moment I still hanging onto to hope. In a situation like this, is it hard for both party to move on ?
Is he playing games with me ?
My ex broke up with me almost 4 months ago. We had no contact since. I thought I’m kind of over this breakup. Couple weeks ago, I broke n/c by sending him a text message, I didn’t expect that he would reply as he didn’t reply to my last text message in December. To my surprise, he replied. I was really happy that he did, at least I know that he’s not ignoring me. So last week, I was thinking about him again, so I thought that I gave him a call, we talked for about 45 min since our breakup, just catching up, nothing about getting back. The conversation went well, and I ended the phone call and said that will talk next time and he said OK. I can tell by our conversation, he still care for me very much. On this past weekend, I sent him a quick text message just to say hello, he didn’t respond, so I phoned him, he didn’t answer, I left a brief message in his voice mail saying that ‘no sure if you receive my text message, give me a call if you want to, if you don’t want to call me back, I understand”. All day, I heard nothing from him, I was kind of disappointed. Later on in the evening, I called him again, but his phone forwarded to voice mail. Then I checked my email and saw a email from him saying that his phone not working and will call me sometime. I was fine with that, I thought at least he has the courtesy to let me know the reason for not responding.
Well, it was been 3 days now, he still hasn’t call me. I guess he probably won’t call, and I guess what he said in his email was just an excuse to make me feel better?? I’m pretty upset about that. Maybe I’m thinking too much and too sensitive? I would rather he ignore me than sent me that email and lie to me, cause that email sort of giving me false hope. If he has no intention to call me, why bother to send me that email ? I don’t understand. Is he playing game?