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  • Dec 9, 2008, 03:15 AM
    TALK2VIVI
    The mistakes ladies make
    What are the mistakes ladies make in relationship and ways to correct them in order to have a healthy, steady and lasting relationship
  • Dec 9, 2008, 03:48 AM
    Moparbyfar

    Mistake: Thinking that she can change her man.
    Correction: Work on her own weaknesses and bad habits first.
  • Dec 9, 2008, 09:56 AM
    talaniman

    Woman make so many a man can't keep count.
  • Dec 9, 2008, 10:02 AM
    jmw0713

    Mistake: Expecting you to know what they want, when they don't even know what they want themselves!!

    Correctable: NO!
  • Dec 9, 2008, 10:11 AM
    kctiger

    Mistake: Interrupting me while watching the football game and drinking a beer.

    Correction: Sit down and shut up (no stupid questions)
  • Dec 9, 2008, 10:13 AM
    ZoeMarie

    As if guys don't make mistakes? I can tell this thread is going to be good
  • Dec 9, 2008, 10:20 AM
    kctiger

    I proclaim myself to be perfect :)

    Just don't ask the ladies I have dated.
  • Dec 9, 2008, 10:23 AM
    jmw0713

    Guys are never wrong. We are the logical, straight thinking sex! :D
  • Dec 9, 2008, 10:24 AM
    ZoeMarie

    Here's a mistake that I often make: I believe that on my husband's day off work when he says that he's going to clean up a little and do some laundry that he's actually going to clean up a little and do some laundry.
  • Dec 9, 2008, 10:27 AM
    kctiger

    ZoeMarie, you obviously have a lot to learn about us guys. If you ever hear me say that I am going to do laundry, you can pretty much assume I will be doing the exact opposite of that! By laundry, I usually mean laying on the couch and watching some really boring television.
  • Dec 9, 2008, 10:33 AM
    talaniman
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ZoeMarie View Post
    here's a mistake that I often make: I believe that on my husband's day off work when he says that he's going to clean up a little and do some laundry that he's actually going to clean up a little and do some laundry.

    My wife falls for that one too.:D Another mistake that ladies make, they believe us guys are really going to work on our day off!! :eek: Around the house no less!:rolleyes: Sheeeeeeeeeeeeeeezzzz!

    Is that correctable, I doubt it as she falls for it all the time.
  • Dec 9, 2008, 10:34 AM
    kctiger

    It's like they expect us to be perfect... who in the hek works on their day off?
  • Dec 9, 2008, 10:35 AM
    ZoeMarie

    You guys are a bunch of jokers. Lol. I work on my day off all the dang time. I would hate to see what the house looked like if I didn't.
  • Dec 9, 2008, 11:36 AM
    roxypox
    Lol when I saw the post title, my first thought was : this smells like trouble :P

    Mistakes we ladies make? Well... I'd say like the guys who answered that we're perfect little angles ;) full of all sorts of glorious characteristics
  • Dec 9, 2008, 11:38 AM
    kctiger

    That is me roxy, an angel all the way!!
  • Dec 9, 2008, 11:59 AM
    roxypox

    KC: lol, don't doubt it ;)
  • Dec 9, 2008, 12:00 PM
    southerngalps
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by kctiger View Post
    Mistake: Interrupting me while watching the football game and drinking a beer.

    Correction: Sit down and shut up (no stupid questions)

    What about sit down, shut up, and have a beer with me? Oh yeah, and watch the game!

    I like that one better. This girl likes beer and football.
  • Dec 9, 2008, 12:44 PM
    kctiger

    I can do that. Sound like my type of gal!
  • Dec 9, 2008, 12:56 PM
    southerngalps
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by kctiger View Post
    I can do that. Sound like my type of gal!

    Awww... you made my day. I agree with you 100% :) I know I am a good catch ;)
  • Dec 9, 2008, 12:58 PM
    kctiger

    All girls are good catches! It is just sometimes the guys who think too much of themselves that make those girls second guess that...
  • Dec 9, 2008, 12:59 PM
    southerngalps
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by kctiger View Post
    All girls are good catches! It is just sometimes the guys who think too much of themselves that make those girls second guess that...

    True!
  • Dec 9, 2008, 01:37 PM
    neverme

    Ah now... in fairness there's a lot of women who are fairly s@*t!! :P


    Joke... only a joke :)
  • Dec 9, 2008, 01:39 PM
    southerngalps

    Of course it is :) I laughed ;)
  • Dec 9, 2008, 01:54 PM
    Kitten78

    #1 Mistake a woman makes in a relationship is starting one.
  • Dec 9, 2008, 01:56 PM
    kctiger

    Wrong Kitten!! You just haven't met the right guy. It is never a mistake to date someone like me! :)
  • Dec 9, 2008, 02:10 PM
    neverme

    Ah kitten... that's no way to be. You'll never get your M.R.S with an attitude like that?
  • Dec 9, 2008, 02:23 PM
    Kitten78

    Oh its mostly a joke...
    I am a bit scorned but I a more a hopeless romantic.
  • Dec 9, 2008, 02:31 PM
    BlackVY

    Mistake : Blow things out of proportion and then fight about it for too long, never let it go, then bring it up years from now in a totally unrelated argument

    Correction : Stop, think, work it out logically and calmly, and when solved, forget about it and not bring it up again
  • Dec 9, 2008, 04:22 PM
    roxypox

    Kc: lol. True! And I think all the girls on here should take that as a compliment. I actually watched a soccer match today and had a beer. Lol not with a boyf though but with some guy friends. ;)
  • Dec 9, 2008, 04:29 PM
    Lovelee
    A mistake a lot of women make (not me of course) is they come off too desperate and act as though they haven't had a man in years.

    Men just hate that
  • Dec 9, 2008, 04:30 PM
    BlackVY
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Lovelee View Post
    A mistake a lot of women make (not me of course) is they come off too desperate and act as though they haven't had a man in years.

    Men just hate that

    Really? Men hate that?

    Damn.. something's wrong with me... I actually want a woman to want me... :(
  • Dec 9, 2008, 04:33 PM
    Lovelee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by BlackVY View Post
    Really? Men hate that?

    Damn.. something's wrong with me... I actually want a woman to want me... :(

    Yes but do you want someone who is too needy? And doesn't give you, your space? Really?
  • Dec 9, 2008, 04:42 PM
    BlackVY
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Lovelee View Post
    Yes but do you want someone who is too needy? And doesn't give you, your space? Really?

    Hmmm now I know there is something very wrong with me... see, I like a woman to want me.. like really want me... and I like it if she spends a lot of her time with me... if I love her, I'd want to spend all my time with her, and if I'm not with her, I'll be missing her too much... I need help... :(
  • Dec 9, 2008, 04:45 PM
    roxypox

    BlackVY: nah, you don't need help... you're not alone in that..
  • Dec 9, 2008, 04:48 PM
    BlackVY
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by roxypox View Post
    blackVY: nah, you don't need help... you're not alone in that...!

    Hmmm thanks... but its way too hard to a find a woman who wants to be with me all the time...

    I've always said, I wish I was born like 100 years ago... when a man was a man and a woman was a woman.. no like now... when men are metros, getting their nails done and legs waxed, and where women have short hair and wear suits and just want to climb the corporate ladder...


    Oooo I know this post is going to get me in trouble... :(
  • Dec 9, 2008, 04:50 PM
    N0help4u
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    Woman make so many a man can't keep count.

    Women's fault are many
    Men have only two
    Everything they say and everything they do.

    Women's mistakes:
    Thinking she can change him
    Thinking he will change
    Ending up losing her own self worth when he doesn't and she is stuck in the situation.
  • Dec 9, 2008, 04:59 PM
    roxypox

    Hehe blackvy it prob will. I'm happy to live in the now, prob b\c I don't fit into the womanly way to act. I burp, I fart, I drink beer, I can't clean up after myself... my philosophy is 40\60... i.e. 40 percent work for me, 60 for the other person...

    (in reality 30\70)

    I'm in possible and very independent and I like to fix things: whether it be a computer or a broken lamp. And of course I scare guys of, b\c I can handle myself I don't actually need someone to do it for me. :P

    I have to admit. I've never tried to change a man. Mostly b\c I liked the person I fell in love with. I do somethimes have a prob with change... however...
  • Dec 9, 2008, 05:07 PM
    BlackVY
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by roxypox View Post
    hehe blackvy it prob will. i'm happy to live in the now, prob b\c i don't fit into the womanly way to act. i burp, i fart, i drink beer, i can't clean up after myself.... my philosophy is 40\60... i.e. 40 percent work for me, 60 for the other person.....

    (in reality 30\70)

    i'm in possible and very independent and i like to fix things: whether it be a computer or a broken lamp. and of course i scare guys of, b\c i can handle myself i don't actually need someone to do it for me. :P

    i have to admit. i've never tried to change a man. mostly b\c i liked the person i fell in love with. i do somethimes have a prob with change.... however....

    Hmmm I see... well you do sound like a woman of today... lol.. but that's my problem... I'm an old fashioned man... not someone u'd find these days... so makes things hard for me... O well...
  • Dec 9, 2008, 07:39 PM
    Moparbyfar
    Mistake: asking him "Do I look fat in this?"

    Correction: TELL him "I look FANTASTIC in this!"
  • Dec 9, 2008, 07:47 PM
    neverme

    Mistake: Telling him if there's a problem at the time it can be solved.

    Correction: Store them all in a compartment in your head to use at a later, more advantageous time!:rolleyes:

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