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Love Confusion

For all of you willing to read this whole thing thank you, and maybe thanks for your advice.. I really need it.

Okay so, i have a new boyfriend we've been dating for about a week, but i still have really strong feelings for my ex. Me and him still talk and things but its like the more i talk to him, and the more i get closer to him, my feelings become stronger.. i Just dont kno how to control them.. i Have asked my ex before if he was over me and he said no iTs really hard to control my feelings, but i like my new bf but not as much as i LOVE my ex.. sometimes when we text its like just an urge to tell him i love him.. but i cant.. Then later today, someone told me they liked me, and i was shocked because i just met him on about the 2nd day of school, but hes in a lower grade then me, i only know him from the bus. But yea anyways, my heart is telling my one thing.. and my feelings are telling me another.. My heart is telling me to stay with my current bf and just proceed with life, but my feelings are telling me to dump my current bf, and try to get back with my ex.. i Just dont really know what to do, im soo confused.. Help please?

Oh and some of you just leaving stupid little retarted comments, and not giving me shtt or helping me out. Keep ur comments to yourself, I dont need you wasting my time. THANK YOU !

Well why did you break up with the ex?
There must have been a good reason or you two would still be together

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Originally Posted by COOKIE MONSTER

well why did you break up with the ex??
there must have been a good reason or you two would still be together

Actually no, I Didn't he did.

We can't tell you who to choose but basic rules are...

... do not jump to a new relationship right after the recent break up
... do not talk to an ex.
... be true to yourself at all times.

Things to consider in going back to an EX
... overall quality of the relationship
... presence of deceit and abuse
... feasibility

It sounds like you are young, I remember when I was younger I felt the same like omg all these people like me lol.. but anyway I think you should just follow your heart.

Well you should ask him why he honestly broke up with you?
And go forward from that awnser

What I would do if I was in your shoes is I'd think hard to myself, who do I like more? Who do I get more along with. You can't force yourself to like someone when you don't or that would just make you plain old miserable. Take the time to think to yourself about who you like more. Cause if you like your ex instead of your current then you should get back.

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Originally Posted by COOKIE MONSTER

well you should ask him why he honestly broke up with you?
and go forward from that awnser

Another girl.

I think you jumped into a relationship too soon. Instead of leading the new guy on explain your situation and tell him you do not want to hurt him by jumping into something too soon.

Well then that says it all
He dumped you for another girl

Who says he won't do it again?
Id move on and forget about him,and see how you and your new boyfriend get on,take it slow,don't be rushing into stuff when your not ready

1. If he dumped you for another girl he can't be trusted.

2. You are using your boyfriend if you are thinking about your ex. Your current boyfriend did not ask for this nor does he deserve this. End it with now before he gets hurt even more.

3. Tell the new guy that you are recovering from a break up and you appreciate him saying he likes you but at this time you need to clear your head and when that happens you might be interested but you can't and won't confirm that until you've spent some time thinking about it.

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Originally Posted by chuff

1. If he dumped you for another girl he can't be trusted.

2. You are using your boyfriend if you are thinking about your ex. Your current bf did not ask for this nor does he deserve this. End it with now before he gets hurt even more.

3. Tell the new guy that you are recovering from a break up and you appreciate him saying he likes you but at this time you need to clear your head and when that happens you might be interested but you can't and won't confirm that until you've spent some time thinking about it.

If he gets hurt even more? Wth? Rofl.. U don't even know the beginging of what he's done to me. But k thanks.

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Originally Posted by kaykay0941

If he gets hurt even more? Wth? Rofl.. U dont even kno the beginging of what he's done to me. But k thanks.

You misunderstood that. He meant the new boyfriend.

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If he gets hurt even more? Wth? Rofl.. U dont even kno the beginging of what he's done to me. But k thanks.

Huh? I am also rofl, but not at your bad English at your own comments. That is correct before your boyfriend gets hurt even more because you are using him, you need to tell him it's over. How do I come to such a conclusion, while I read your original post, let's read it together and see what it says...

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Okay so, i have a new boyfriend we've been dating for about a week, but i still have really strong feelings for my ex.

Hmmm. Seems a little... a lot unfair.

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i like my new bf but not as much as i LOVE my ex..

Huh? Does you boyfiend like being used? Most guys don't?

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My heart is telling me to stay with my current bf and just proceed with life, but my feelings are telling me to dump my current bf, and try to get back with my ex

OOOOOOHHH!! So your feeling are telling you to dump your boyfriend but when I actually say break up with him before he gets hurt even more you question me.

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Originally Posted by chuff

Huh? I am also rofl, but not at your bad English at your own comments. That is correct before your boyfriend gets hurt even more because you are using him, you need to tell him it's over. How do I come to such a conclusion, while I read your original post, let's read it together and see what it says.......

Hmmm. Seems a little.......a lot unfair.

Huh? Does you boyfiend like being used? Most guys don't?

OOOOOOHHH!!!! So your feeling are telling you to dump your boyfriend but when I actually say break up with him before he gets hurt even more you question me.

Rofl my english? My english is good.. U should tell me which boy your talking about.. iNstead of criticizing me.

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Originally Posted by chuff

Huh? I am also rofl, but not at your bad English at your own comments. That is correct before your boyfriend gets hurt even more because you are using him, you need to tell him it's over. How do I come to such a conclusion, while I read your original post, let's read it together and see what it says.......

Hmmm. Seems a little.......a lot unfair.

Huh? Does you boyfiend like being used? Most guys don't?

OOOOOOHHH!!!! So your feeling are telling you to dump your boyfriend but when I actually say break up with him before he gets hurt even more you question me.

O and wdf? IM not using him? IF you KNEW EXACTLY WHAT WAS GOiNG ON. You would do the same thing I'm doing.. But appearently you don't.. So back off? K thanks!

Uhm actually I'm not, your not me, so don't say stuff you don't even know. Ur bullsht isn't needed on this comment page.. Kthanks.

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Originally Posted by kaykay0941

Rofl my english? My english is good.. U should tell me which boy ur talking about.. iNstead of critizing me.

I can't tell you how hard I laughed at you with this.

Also I did tell you what boy I was talking about. You actually have to read the posts.

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O and wdf? iM not using him? iF you KNEW EXACTLY WHAT WAS GOiNG ON. You would do the same thing im doing.. But appearently you dont.. So back off? K thanks!

Priceless. Actually I have never needed to use someone while I've had feelings for someone else... so uh... No I would not do the same thing you are doing and if you are going to come here and lie about what you are doing I will happily call you on it. Maybe the boys on the bus don't see through your games but I sure can. K welcome!

Wow... Do not ask for advice if you do not want to hear the opinions people have. Chuff is right. You are too young. And you obviously heard what you did want to and got upset. You need to calm down a lot.

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Originally Posted by chuff

I can't tell you how hard I laughed at you with this.

Also I did tell you what boy I was talking about. You actually have to read the posts.

Actually I Did, But I Got A Little Confused, And iM Sorry About That, But You Laughing Doesn't Help The Situation So.. Go Comment Someone Else's Problem? Cause Your Not Helping Me At All, Your Making The Situation Worse. Bye.

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Originally Posted by kaykay0941

Uhm actually im not, your not me, so dont say stuff you dont even know. Ur bullsht isnt needed on this comment page.. Kthanks.

My BS huh. What's the matter the high school guys don't see through your game and when someone else does it bothers you?

I'm curious about you insight. What exactly would you call it when you go out with someone but have feelings for someone else? I know you said I'd do it, and even though I'm not that cruel is that what you'd recommend for most couples?

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Originally Posted by chuff

My BS huh. What's the matter the high school guys don't see through your game and when someone else does it bothers you?

I'm curious about you insight. What exactly would you call it when you go out with someone but have feelings for someone else? I know you said I'd do it, and even though I'm not that cruel is that what you'd recommend for most couples?

Who Said I Was iN High school? And Who Said That Signature Was For You? NO BODY, Exactly. But Anyway, iT Was Hard Saying No To Him, I Could Tell He Liked Me A lot, And I Didn't Want Him To Be Hurt By Me Rejecting Him, We WERE Friends, Now We Are Together, But That Girl On The Other Comment Helped Me Out, iM Staying With My Current BF, Cause He Could Leave Me For Another Girl Again(My Ex), But Anyway, Sorry For All The Mis-Hap, Ttyl.

Oh And iM iN 8th.

Uhm actually I'm not, your not me, so don't say stuff you don't even know. Ur bullsht isn't needed on this comment page.. Kthanks.

Haha, And Yea Ur Bs, U Weren't Really Helping Me Out Bud, Sorry. l:

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Oh And iM iN 8th.

O dear god. Never mind I regret posting in here.

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Originally Posted by wikedjuggalo

O dear god. Never mind I regret posting in here.

LOLL, Why iS That.

O.k seriously. Caps lock key please check it. Second you are too young to have love. I can put money on come next year you will be with someone else. Just move on past your old ex and get good grades they come in handy more often then a boyfriend.

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Originally Posted by kaykay0941

Who Said i Was iN HighSchool? And Who Said That Signature Was For You? NO BODY, Exactly.

OMG!! You are nuts. I didn't notice that signature until you just said this. My God I can't stop laughing!! And who said that anybody questioned on that signature? NO BODY (correctly spelled nobody).

Now I know why you have so many guys interested in you, you are too funny.

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But Neways, iT Was Hard Saying No To Him, i Could Tell He Liked Me ALOT, And i Didnt Want Him To Be Hurt By Me Rejecting Him, We WERE Friends, Now We Are Together,

Don't you think it would hurt him more to go out with and then be dumped for another guy you had feelings for then to be rejected at the beginning?

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But That Girl On The Other Comment Helped Me Out, iM Staying With My Current BF, Cause He Could Leave Me For Another Girl Again(My Ex),

That is exactly what I said!!

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But Anyways, Sorry For All The Mis-Hap, Ttyl.

Your young you'll learn.

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Oh And iM iN 8th.

Oh dear GOD!! That explains it all.

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Originally Posted by wikedjuggalo

O dear god. Never mind I regret posting in here.

I had to spread it but I think this explains everything.

Oh I love it, I just got it that the original post was edited.

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Oh and some of you just leaving stupid little retarted comments, and not giving me shtt or helping me out. Keep ur comments to yourself, I dont need you wasting my time. THANK YOU ![/B]

Yeah everybody quit being retarted. Nobody likes a retart! NO BODY waste her time or you are a retart.

It's my new favorite word.

Here's an answer quit dating

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Originally Posted by chuff

Priceless. Actually I have never needed to use someone while I've had feelings for someone else.....so uh.....No I would not do the same thing you are doing and if you are going to come here and lie about what you are doing I will happily call you on it. Maybe the boys on the bus don't see through your games but I sure can. k welcome!

? Lmaoo omg.. Ur so funny.. iM NOT USiNG HiM, Dumb sht.. U don't know me at all.. So don't talk sht about me if you don't even know me. K thanks.

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Originally Posted by kaykay0941

? Lmaoo omg.. Ur so funny.. iM NOT USiNG HiM, Dumb sht.. U dont kno me at all.. So dnt talk sht about me if u dont even kno me. k thanks.

I think you should refrain from posting if you do not want to hear what people have to say. Just because someone does not agree with you does not mean you need to get rude with.

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Originally Posted by wikedjuggalo

I think you should refrain from posting if you do not want to hear what people have to say. Just because someone does not agree with you does not mean you need to get rude with.

Uhm No Not Really, They Shouldn't Say Anything When They Hardly Know Me, My Post Asked For Advice, Didn't Ask For Negative Comments. Thank You.

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Uhm No Not Really, They Shouldnt Say Anything When They Hardly Know Me, My Post Asked For Advice, Didnt Ask For Negative Comments. Thank You.

Nobody on here knows you so by that logic you should ask your friends for advice.

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Originally Posted by wikedjuggalo

Nobody on here knows you so by that logic you should ask your friends for advice.

Damn, I had to spread it but this was both funny and the truth.

Somebody loves the drama!

How do I know, well this is one of the older posts she answered, which is ironic since she saw this last night when we were online with my super duper awesome new computer that I bought with my own money cause I don't live with my parents.

I don't usually giving a Chuffing to non English speakers but I've spoke a little middle school in the past so let's give it a try.

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? Lmaoo

You are laughing your a$$ off... off? Twice?

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omg.. Ur so funny..

Thank you. Your not the first to say that, but in your case I was being serious.

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iM NOT USiNG HiM,

First of all, I want to say impressive use of the caps button. First rate.

Second, you are using him because as everybody can see by your own words you don't have feelings for him that he has for you. So when the break up occurs because he's been led to believe otherwise by you he's going to be hurt. In the big person world that's using someone.

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Dumb sht..

I'll let your own words and actions determine the truthfulness of that statement.

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U dont kno me at all..

I know you can't spell.

I also know you can't commit to a guy.

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So dnt talk sht about me if u dont even kno me.

Well let me correct you, I'm not talking about you... okay your bad spelling yes... but about your relationships I'm talking about your actions and what your doing. If you want to lie to yourself that's fine... but I'm not going to lie for you.

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k thanks.

K wlcme.