Complicated Long Distance Situation
I'm in desperate need of advice here. I'm going to tell you my story, and PLEASE reply with help. No, I'm not a silly teenager with a ridiculous problem, I'm mature and honestly, and truthfully need advice.
9 years ago, I met a man that changed my life without a single word. We never spoke because we were too shy, but we often caught each others eyes staring and quickly looked away. He ended up moving to England, while I moved to the states. Through myspace, we started talking again, discussing our secret crushes we had for each other. We soon figured out that we were basically everything we looked for in a person and dated long distance for about 4 months. He couldn't trust me for unknown reasons, and ended it. I moved on to my current boyfriend, which has been NOTHING like the man I met 9 years ago.
We got over our differences, and became best friends. We both still deeply love each other, but there is a small catch. I'm still with my boyfriend, who lives 5 minutes from me.. and my 9-year-crush has a girlfriend that live 3000 miles from him, and he claims to love her.
I'm willing to give up everything to be back with my 9-year-crush. We could find a way to see each other, because he still lives far away. I know if I talked him into it, he would leave his girlfriend for me, but I know that's wrong. I'm in love with this man. I can never feel the feelings I have for him for anyone else, I know deep within my heart we are meant to be.
What should I do?? :confused:
Should I stay with my current boyfriend which I'm unhappy with, or try to be with my 9-year-crush?
Any advice anyone? PLEASE HELP!! :eek: