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My boyfriend of 11 years is the most lazy person I have ever met I pay all the bills and mortgage we have 4children and I provide evrything for them. He really gets on my nerves and I am at breaking point if I killed him which sometimes I have come close to would I get away withit
No you would not get away with it!! Especially since you posted it online :)
WHOA! Slow down there! We all get angry with the people we love and we don't always approve of their choices they make in life, but murder is not the answer. If your relationship is that bad, may I suggest getting out of it? That would be the safe and easy way. Sometimes I feel like strangeling my lover, but all in all I would surely miss him if he were dead.
You have 4 children with this guy, you pay mortgage and all other bills and he is not giving a cent? Did you two make an agreement where you, the girlfriend, worked and he stayed home with the little ones?
Yikes, this question is very inappropriate. I don't know whether this subject is considered okay on this site but personally I think this post should be deleted.
Having said that, no you would not get away with it, you'd go to jail for the rest of your natural life and your children would be without a mother or father. Seek professional help before you do something you will regret for the rest of your life.
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Originally Posted by Altenweg
Wanted to give you a greenie but can't I agree delete this!!
Don't kill him, boot him out. Doesn't he work, or why not?
I hope the "murder" question was somehow metaphorical. Some people feel like they could "kill" someone financially in court through a divorce.
If you are at a point where you are considering doing harm to someone, I urge you to seek counseling immediately. That would not be the way to solve any problems, and would certainly create more.
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Originally Posted by talaniman
She can't blame him because she allowed it to go on for 11 years... 11 years and still a boyfriend.. I guess he was too lazy to walk down the aisle.
Um, you spent 11 years and had 4 kids with this loser? Now you want to make those kids orphans with him dead and you in jail?
Girl you need to get some professional help and FAST. You need to find the guts to throw him out and get out from under his thumb. You are an enabler and have enabled him all these years. You have to learn how to not be an enabler.
If you got away with it, would you actually "get away" with it? Your conscience would never let you forget about it!Quote:
Originally Posted by nicki143
I smell a troll.
I can't believe someone would put up with 11 years of this behavior. Ain't that much love, in the whole world.
The 11 years, I could take.
Asking an entire web forum if she'll get away with murder..
... possibly not the brightest crayon in the box.
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Originally Posted by ISneezeFunny
Lol... this is too funny...
An umemployed dad who loves u is better than a dead one. What a nasty thing to ask. If u are not happy best thing to do is leaveQuote:
Originally Posted by nicki143
I would not exactly murder him would not give him satisfaction.
It is not he is to lazy to walk up the aisle I do not want to get married and I would never marry him.
He has a job but but he is self employed and just goes when he wants and seems to have got in to a routine of not going.
I do hassle him to go but seem to get any joy no matter how much I cry and create.
But kill him I would not do just wondered if I would get away with it
He is employed and if he loved me he would not put everything on me have tried to get rid of himQuote:
Originally Posted by katrina27
Why stay with him?
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Originally Posted by nicki143
So why are you complaining about this again? You don't want to marry him, you would never marry him, he is lazy, you have to hassle him to do things? Why are you in this relationship? Financially he is not supporting you? Emotionally is an obvious and he doesn't take care of the kids... If you say you are doing this all alone why not leave? Just sounds redundant. . WHy are you with him? Hell your doing it on your own now.. what's the difference if he is out of the picture, if he did work and did things it seems it wouldn't matter any way because you don't want to be with him.. Why are you waisting time... GET out! For your own sanity
Um, when you start having homicidal fantasies maybe that would be a sign it's time for you to get out of that relationship? Of course you won't get away with it, esp. after you posted it online! Your kids would lose a two parents, one deal and one in jail for life. If you are that unhappy. Leave him. Talk to a counselor about how you are feeling. If you're feeling like you want to get violent with him, you need to get help for yourself right away! Talk to a doctor or counselor.
Wowie!
Uuuh, leave them... goodness I'm pretty sure a monkey could answer this.
You would probably get caught... that is why whenever I want to have someone offed, I hire a hit man.
Yeh. Um. Why do you stay with a loser? Don't say you love him and that's why you stay. I have never understood women like that. You have to love yourself - and your children more. Get out, get a life... and start living. Maybe then you will be more content with the idea of letting him live. :)
Leaving him would be must easier and have less consiquences then killing him.
You need to get out of this relationship and see a therapist to help you work through your issues. Do not kill him. If you kill him you'll get caught. And then your children will have no one.
Mhm! Therapy will help you work on the issues you had with this man. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by justcurious55
Well he sounds like he deserves it... so if I were the judge I would let you slide with manslaughter probably.. lol.. just kick his out.. he's just taking up space. ;)
Does he do house work or make himself useful at home? Back in the day a man went to work, and a woman stayed home, and took care of kids and the house. Stop doing the house work, and leave it to him. If he doesn't step up raise hell. At least you get to see how a man feels, when he comes home to a nasty house, and no food, after a hard days work.
No, you wouldn't! First-degree murder carries a life sentence, usually without the possibility of parole and in some states a possible death sentence. It's not at all wise to advocate criminal activity on an open forum such as this. Just the fact that you posted such a question could implicate you. You may want to consider deleting this thread (if the mods don't beat you to it.)
I can already see this on the news "Woman kills boyfriend after site-users were alarmed at her posting which suggested murder...etc"
So if someone deletes this thread and she kills him, would the deleter be an accessory before the fact?
Even if (s)he were, (s)he wouldn't be liable or culpable, since (s)he'd be acting in the interest of preventing the use of this forum for advocating illegal activity. And since this forum is anonymous, there's no way that anything posted on this thread could be considered as evidence that could be used to stop or prosecute a killer.Quote:
So if someone deletes this thread and she kills him, would the deleter be an accessory before the fact?
He's lazy
U are a bad comedian.
U may just deserve each other...
Why am I a bad comedian and maybe we do deserve each other but kicked him out now anyway so he is goneQuote:
Originally Posted by Ash123
Wow, that fast huh? I bet he'll be back before the end of the week!Quote:
Originally Posted by nicki143
How was it fast it took 11 years. You bet your life he will not be back got his mother to mother him now till ne finds some other mug.
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Originally Posted by nicki143
Good for you... let him grow up...
?? You mean Nikki the 34 year old atheist travel agent from Hull, England with 4 kids, the first of whom she had at an early age and the other three are a girl and a boy aged 13 and a younger girl aged 11 is anonymous. You mean the lady who owes 812 pounds to the city or whatever and has a cop friend drop in for coffee now and then. This is the lady that has posted interest in killing her partner many times on this site. In a town of 250K how long do you think it would take the police to find her? Minutes or hours?Quote:
Originally Posted by s_cianci
So the administrators would delete this thread and that would somehow trump evidence of premeditation of murder?
Are you stalking me. He has gone now I never killed him never was going to kill him it was a question.Quote:
Originally Posted by rodandy12
... it was your introduction post.
I want to ask... why you thought it was a good idea to ask "would I get away with murder?"
If an 8 year old asked me that, I'd understand. You're a grown up... with kids. Do you think you'd get away with murder? You watch TV... right? COPS... AMERICA'S MOST WANTED... heck, even CSI?
To me it sounds that this guy is not the problem but you. It sounds that your jealous of him being self employed. At least he does work. Might be different from yours but still contributes. You sound like you're the one that needs help. Each situation is different but sounds like jealousy to me on your end.
You have not even thought about the children in this situation it is ALL ABOUT YOU. RED FLAGS RED FLAGS.
If anything happens to your partner, or ex partner. You will defiantly be the main suspect or the only suspect and all these posts will actually be used against you in trial.
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