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  • Sep 25, 2007, 03:11 PM
    Makiavelic76
    Songs we sing Part 1
    I was thinking about how to structure the amount of songs we listen through a break up process, yeah, we keep them on our mp3players to the office, to the gym, to grocery stores, in the car, just everywhere with us.

    Some of us we will try to avoid some sort of music that remainds our lost partner, some others will try to listen to them until our eyes runs out off tears (could be therapeutic). Some of us will try to listen songs with some motivational content, etc.

    I want to pass through the hall process, thatīs why the Group Part 1 of songs are for trying to rip it off that pain from our chest, and yes maybe cry, maybe feel anger, maybe want some sweet revenge (just keep it as therapeutic form to move on not in other way of revenge please), maybe others for forgive them for the pain they made us, etc..

    The Group Part 2 it would be for songs to overpower our lessons learnt, to put our feet on the ground again well recovered, to support our self-esteem, to raise again...

    Feel free to add your songs, and to comment any of them, maybe this would become a STICKY for everyone :)


    GROUP 1 Songs we listen

    1.- Fuel - In my hands
    2.- Pearl Jam - Black
    3.- Stone Sour - Through the glass
    4.- Jack Johnson - Fstop blues
    5.- Hootie & The Blowfish - Let her cry
    6.- linkin Part - In the End
    ...
  • Sep 25, 2007, 09:48 PM
    MissingHim2Much
    I also have Black by Pearl Jam on my sad sad cry C.D. some other good ones are (Blurry)by Puddle of Mud , (Here with out you) by Three doors down , ( How's it going to be ) by Third eye blind and ( It's been awhile ) by Staind.
  • Sep 25, 2007, 09:55 PM
    friend4u178
    Hi missing
    Seeing as you mention "Puddle of Mud" how about their hit " She Fu*&in Hates Me" :-)
  • Sep 25, 2007, 10:09 PM
    MissingHim2Much
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by friend4u178
    Hi missing
    Seeing as you mention "Puddle of Mud" how about their hit " She Fu*&in Hates Me" :-)

    Lol friend, great song also
  • Sep 25, 2007, 10:20 PM
    Makiavelic76
    Blurry such a power song, I used to believe in that!

    Candlebox - You
    Guns n' Roses - So fine
    Hootie & The Blowfish - Goodbye
    James Blunt - Goodbye my lover
    Toad The Wet Sprocket - Crowing (this one is powerful too)
    Rod Stewart - My heart can't tell you no (but it will soon) ;)
    Pearl Jam - Dissident
    ...
  • Sep 25, 2007, 10:32 PM
    friend4u178
    Ok here's a few

    Bonnie Tyler - Total eclipse of the heart
    Robbie Williams - Feel (not sure if he's big in the US)
    Michael Jackson - She's out of my life
    Celine Dion - LOL anything she sings is sad :)
  • Dec 13, 2007, 10:35 PM
    George_1950
    Delbert McClinton - I Don't Want To Love You Anymore
  • Dec 13, 2007, 10:39 PM
    friend4u178
    REM- Everybody hurts
  • Dec 13, 2007, 11:33 PM
    inthebox
    Wake Up Call - Maroon 5
    I don't want to be in love - Good Charlotte
    I hate everything about you - 3 days grace
    Forever - Papa Roach
    Loving, touching, squeezing - Journey
    Whatever - Godsmack
    Tear away - Drowning Pool
    Fine again - Seether
    How's it going to be - Third eye blind

    Everybody plays the fool - Main Ingredients
    Stuttering - Ben's brother
    Best I ever had - Vertical horizon
    The scientist - Coldplay
    Tattoo - Jordin Sparks
    Sorry - Buck Cherry
  • Dec 14, 2007, 12:03 AM
    Whisp
    Third Eye Blind - How's It Going to Be
    Third Eye Blind - Farther
    Third Eye Blind - Goodman
    (and a lot more by them, I think I love the band too much)
    The Shins - Turn On Me
    Joshua Radin - The Fear You Won't Fall
    Sum 41 - Pieces
    Johny Cash - I Still Miss Someone
    Franz Ferdinand - Auf Achse
  • Dec 15, 2007, 03:13 AM
    MissingHim2Much
    I have a few more to add

    (What Hurts the Most) by Rascal Flatts

    (You'll Think of Me) by Keith Urban

    (Wasted Time) by the Eagles

    (These Eyes) by the Guess Who

    (Laughing) by the Guess Who
  • Dec 15, 2007, 03:31 AM
    friend4u178
    Wasted time is a great song... When you mention the Eagles I always remember the last track on Hotel California , do you remember "The last Resort"
  • Dec 15, 2007, 04:27 AM
    MissingHim2Much
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by friend4u178
    Wasted time is a great song..............When you mention the Eagles I always remember the last track on Hotel California , do you remember "The last Resort"

    Yeah I remember it... Great song the Eagles are the $hit
  • Dec 15, 2007, 02:27 PM
    X-Z3R0
    Same lyrics but harder beat if you like that stuff...

    TSOL-Being In Love
    TSOL- Wash Away
    TSOL- Darker My Love
    TSOL- Flowers By The Door
    TSOL- Sedatives
    TSOL- It's Gray (lyrics are good the beats a little stupid)
    Subhumans- Curl Up And Die
    NOFX- She's Gone
    NOFX- Linoleum
    NOFX- Leave It Alone
    NOFX- Happy Break Up Song (this is a little dirty)
    Green Day- Pop Rocks & Coke
    Green Day- 80
    Green Day- Stuart & The Avenue
    Green Day- F.O.D
    Green Day- Stuck With ME
    Green Day- Only Of You
    Green Day- At The Library
    Green Day- Don't Leave Me
    Against All Authority- All Ages Show Tonight
    Against All Authority- Best Enemy
    Anti-Flag- Angry, Young, And Poor

    Like I said, a little punk-ish but the meanings are good. Those are some of the songs I listen to during break ups/depression/sadness/etc.
  • Dec 17, 2007, 08:34 AM
    George_1950
    If You Are Going Through Hell - Rodney Atkins
  • Dec 24, 2007, 12:45 PM
    George_1950
    Missing You - John Waite
  • Dec 24, 2007, 02:38 PM
    George_1950
    One the other hand, there is this:

    I will watch you in the darkness
    Show you love will see you through
    When the bad dreams wake you crying
    I'll show you all love can do
    All love can do

    I will watch through the night
    Hold you in my arms
    Give you dreams where love will be
    I will watch through the dark
    'Til the morning comes
    All the light I'll take you through the night to see
    A light showing us all love can be

    I will guard you with my bright wings
    Stay 'til your heart learns to see

    "All Love Can Be", Charlotte Church
  • Dec 24, 2007, 03:09 PM
    little firefly
    "Somewhere down the road"
    "Weekend in New England"
    "Looks like we made it"... all by Barry Manilow (yes I know, but don't laugh)
    "You are everything" by the Stylistics
    "Everybody Hurts" by REM

    Now however I'm in a healing stage so I find that I'm listening to songs more along the line of:

    "Freak on a leash" by Korn
    "You oughta know" by Alanis Morissette
    "Violet" by Hole

    Looks like I've gone from one musical extreme to the other dosen't it. :D
  • Dec 24, 2007, 04:07 PM
    spartan24018
    Baby Come on Home- Led Zeppelin
    Ten Years Gone- Led Zeppelin
    Wish You Were Here- Pink Floyd
    Pieces- Sum 41
    Hurt- Johnny Cash
    I still miss someone- Johnny Cash
  • Dec 24, 2007, 10:33 PM
    MissingHim2Much
    Stone Sour:

    Through Glass

    I'm looking at you through the glass...
    Don't know how much time has passed
    Oh, god it feels like forever
    But no one ever tells you that forever
    Feels like home sitting all alone inside your head

    How do you feel? That is the question
    But I forget.. you don't expect an easy answer
    When something like a soul becomes
    Initialized and folded up like paper dolls and little notes
    You can't expect a bit of hope
    So while you're outside looking in
    Describing what you see
    Remember what you're staring at is me

    Cause I'm looking at you through the glass...
    Don't know how much time has passed
    All I know is that it feels like forever
    When no one ever tells you that forever
    Feels like home, sitting all alone inside your head

    How much is real? So much to question
    An epidemic of the mannequins
    Contaminating everything
    When thought came from the heart
    It never did right from the start
    Just listen to the noises
    (Null and void instead of voices)
    Before you tell yourself
    It's just a different scene
    Remember it's just different from what you've seen

    I'm looking at you through the glass...
    Don't know how much time has passed
    And all I know is that it feels like forever
    When no one ever tells you that forever
    Feels like home, sitting all alone inside your head

    And it's the starrrssss
    The sttarrrsss
    That shine for you
    And it's the starrrssss
    The sttarrrsss
    That lie to you.. yeah-ah
  • Dec 27, 2007, 09:21 AM
    Bassdrop
    U2 - With Or Without You
    Foo Fighters - Everlong
  • Dec 27, 2007, 10:57 AM
    talaniman
    I'm old school,
    Righteous Bros- That lovin' feeling
    Dramatics-In the rain
    Chi-lites-Lonely man.
  • Dec 27, 2007, 11:29 AM
    N0help4u
    I will Survive --Gloria Gaynor
    You Lost That Loving Feeling --Righteous Bros
    This Old Heart of mine --Ron and Rod
    Against All Odds --Phil Collins
    I'm Not in Love 10cc
    Sorry and
    Crazy --Patsy Cline
    Always on My Mind --Willie Nelson
    It's all over now --Big Joe Turner
    Total Eclipse of My Heart --Bonnie Tyler

    Here's a good site
    Breakup Songs - the Best of the Best Break Up Songs - YOUR FAVORITE BREAKUP SONGS U - Z
  • Dec 27, 2007, 11:59 AM
    mafiaangel180
    Here are a few of many...

    Only One~Yellowcard
    Bright Lights~Matchbox 20
    A Perfect Sonnet~Bright Eyes
    You're So Last Summer~Taking Back Sunday

    And two old school songs for good measure...

    Build Me Up Buttercup~The Foundations
    Sugar Pie, Honey Bunch~The Four Tops
  • Dec 27, 2007, 12:36 PM
    talaniman
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by mafiaangel180
    Here are a few of many...

    Only One~Yellowcard
    Bright Lights~Matchbox 20
    A Perfect Sonnet~Bright Eyes
    You're So Last Summer~Taking Back Sunday

    And two old school songs for good measure...

    Build Me Up Buttercup~The Foundations
    Sugar Pie, Honey Bunch~The Temptations

    Sugar Pie, Honey Bunch- Isn't that the Four Tops?
  • Dec 27, 2007, 12:40 PM
    mafiaangel180
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by talaniman
    Sugar Pie, Honey Bunch- Isn't that the Four Tops?

    You're right! I wasn't sure who sung it, and the Temptations were the first group that popped up on Google. Haha. But yeah, it is the Four Tops! :)
  • Dec 27, 2007, 12:52 PM
    crushedovernover
    The new alicia keys. Is agood one
  • Dec 28, 2007, 09:00 PM
    George_1950
    Foreigner: "I Want To Know What Love Is" and "A Love In Vain"
  • Dec 29, 2007, 10:52 AM
    George_1950
    "I Might Get Over You" Kenny Chesney
  • Jan 10, 2008, 03:44 PM
    justme005
    LOST -- michael buble
    There's a fine fine line -- Avenue Q (show tune)
    Will you be there -- Michael Jackson
    Love hurts -- Damien Rice
    My beautiful rescue -- this providence
    Human -- Jon McLaughlin
    I can't move -- Martin Creed
    Was I -- Jenny Owen Youngs
    David -- Nellie Mckay
    To be With you -- Mr. Big
    All we can do is keep breathing -- Ingrid Michaelson
    The way I am -- Ingrid Michaelson
    Slow motion -- david gray


    These are good songs for therapy.
  • Jan 10, 2008, 04:35 PM
    in a state
    Tool-schism
    Dave brubeck-take five
    Jean leloup-i lost my baby

    Fourtet-hands
    Jackson5-i want you back
  • Jan 10, 2008, 07:00 PM
    George_1950
    Westlife - Miss You
  • Jan 11, 2008, 06:52 AM
    Romefalls19
    Well lately it's been country music for me... It's actually good for it I think lol

    1. Garth Brooks - More than a memory(I suggest everyone downloads this song)
    2. Taylor Swift - Cold As You Are
    3. Brad Paisley - I wish You'd Stay
    4. Chris Cagle - What Kind Of Gone
    5. Jason Aldean - Do You Wish It Was Me
  • Jan 11, 2008, 06:56 AM
    HistorianChick
    Iris - Goo Goo Dolls
    Better Days - Goo Goo Dolls
    Let Love In - Goo Goo Dolls (I'm a Goo Goo Doll addict)
    Beauty from Ashes - Superchick
    Stand in the Rain - Superchick
    For Good - Wicked Broadway Soundtrack (theatre geek, what can I say! :) )
  • Jan 23, 2008, 10:19 AM
    George_1950
    If There Hadn't Been You - Doug Stone
    I Want To Grow Old With You - Westlife
    I'ld Love To Be Your Last - Clay Walker
    Dark Angel - Blue Rodeo
    Come Tomorrow - Streisand & Barry Gibb
    Forever's As Far As I'll Go - Alabama
    If I Had You - Alabama

    For change of pace...
  • Jan 23, 2008, 10:23 AM
    Romefalls19
    Every Rose Has It's Thorn - Poison
  • Jan 23, 2008, 10:29 AM
    mafiaangel180
    "Teardrops on My Guitar" ~Taylor Swift
  • Jan 23, 2008, 10:31 AM
    HistorianChick
    Sadly, at the risk of irrevocably damaging the opinion of myself on this forum...

    "My Happy Ending" Avril Lavigne...

    (I'm truly sorry, y'all! :) but it's been that song as of late... )
  • Jan 23, 2008, 10:36 AM
    TrueFaith
    Muse - Shine

    The bravery - No Ring On these fingers


    Great stuff reminds me of the girls and reminds me that no matter what your still here. Your healthy and happy!

    Great mood twister :)
  • Jan 23, 2008, 10:37 AM
    mafiaangel180
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by HistorianChick
    Sadly, at the risk of irrevocably damaging the opinion of myself on this forum....

    "My Happy Ending" Avril Lavigne...

    (I'm truly sorry, y'all! :) but it's been that song as of late...)

    It's a good one! ;)

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