Ok.. so her here's thing I liked this kid lets just say darryl and I guess he liked me but I was scared to tell him I liked him cause I didn't want a realiship. Me and darryl were just friend then one day he introced me to his friend and we hit it offf and started going out but I still kind of had those feeling for darryl. Then me and my new boyfriend were off and on all though out the summer. Here were it get crazy so we broke up like all most a week ago then my best friend just got out of this weird relationship thing and her and darryl are really good friends. Well me and her were hangout so I was going to tell her how much I liked darryl and see what happens.But right before that she was like omg I like darryl now I have no clue what to do?? Helpp

Oh, girl he's fair game. You have to do what makes you happy. Talk to your friend and tell her how you feel. If she's a true friend she wount get mad. You can't help who you fall in love with. I learned that the hard way. Don't ever do something or not do something that you are going to regret later.

Go for him! L0L! If you like him, then take a chance and go for him. Who cares if he's your ex's best friend... it's not like y'all are together anymore. Just go for it with him... cause if you don't then you'll be kicking yourself for not trying.

I still have feeling for my x boyfriend and I want to get bacck togetehr but he dosen't want a girlfriend over summer. And my best frined will get pssed if I go back out with him cause he say he treat me like but I love him what to do ? He wants me to wait tell the school year starts to get back togther do I wait. So just leave him

He is your ex for a reason, isn't he?

Well as spawn says he ex for reason I know it hard when you love someone who doesn't return the feeling but youhave two issues here

A - if he doesn't want a girlfriend for the summer why the heck not? To better his chsances of a summertime fling?

B - he really wants to end it and hopes that over the summer you get on without him therefore allowing him to break uo with you with out the guilt trip


Niether option is very honest so you are beter off with out him and also if you ever did get back togeher what about other holidays like thanks giving and christmas or new years will he want a break then as well?

Move on.:)

So I have been gone for 3 weeek and wheni getback my boyfriend says I have been gone to long and wants to breack up this is the 3rd time he has broke up and every time he wants to get back togther. NOw t leik 3 week after this whoel thing and he wa sliek I miss you baby and I messed up. I don't know if I should go back to him I mena I love him. BUt he hurt me so much evertime eh dosse this and I old my friend I wouldn't go back too him so I ahvent really talk to him that much he said it was all up to me. And were hangout and talking about it to dayy

What do I do

If I were you I wouldn't go back to him because he's only going to do it again and he has hurt you before so I think you should just tell him no because he plays too many games and its like he can't make up his mind... you don't need him! You deserve someone much better!

You sound like a tennis ball, bouncing back and forth. Do you enjoy that? If not, stop.

Sounds like he's a bit insecure. Probably doesn't mean bad though, just doesn't know to deal with it. Immature in a way. I don't know, maybe try again, but when you do get back with him, don't make it easy and make it clear that he cannot do this again, because it's not fair to you. Communication could help in a situation like this. Just talk to him and see if you can work it out.

He obviously likes being in control-like deciding when he wants to be with you or break up with you. Now you're in control and if you go back right away he will be in control again. Maybe just wait a little while and see what happens. If he's still begging have you back after a few weeks, maybe he really means it and has learned his lesson. If you do take him back, make it clear to him that you are only giving him one last chance and that if he breaks it off again it's over for good.

I must say... it must suck to be someones personal toy. He's obviousely playing with your emotions AND your availability. Don't let him do this to you. it's not fair to you at all. Warn him that if he doesn't cut it out that he'll never be graced with your pressence in a relatioship with him again.:)

Im 16 so I was going out with this kid awhile ago and we feel inm love no joke but then myy dad was aa problem causehe didn't want us to be toether so he made me breack up and now me and him talk all the time and we know were in love but font know what to do cas eits like 4 months later and I have a boyfrined witch I don't even love as much as this kid and then he has a girlfrined tahts a and he know it. BUT we just want to be togther. My dad sosent like him because... He didn't knoqw him and we got catch making out tahts it

Why did your father have a problem with him?

HE wants to be with you, or YOU are the only one who wants to be together?

Why doesn't your dad want you to be together? We need more information.

How old is he?-- your dαd must hαve α good reαson for not liking him...

Put more info :)

I'd say move on if you guys really wanted to be together why are you both dating other people??

You are 16 and you should be focusing on school. I mean, "xgirlfrined" is spelled wrong. And so is almost everything else... I know this sounds rude, but school is more important than a guy right now. At you age, friends with benefits would be more appropriate until you grow older and learn more. Hope you are not offended. It's not like I'm a genius anyway.

Your right emopunk you αren't α genius you bαsicαlly told α 16 yeαr old to be α slut.. "friends with benifits?"

GREAT ADVICE

Well you should not disobey your father. All he is trying to do is protect his daughter. He remembers what it was like to be a 16 year old boy and I'm sure he's concerned that making out will lead to sex and he doesn't even want to think about that. Your dad is just freaking that your growing up, it happens with dad's.

You are young yes but so am I. Your dad probably is worried about you, does not want to see you getting hurt etc. His little girl growing up so quick with a boy on the scene. He probably realises that love hurts and has seen things go wrong. Perhaps It would be worth having a conversation with your father if he is open to conversing in a mature way with you about the way you feel about him.

I don't know what the legal age etc for your country but I am sure your old enough now to be able to choose yourself who you wish to see? Make your own choices in life and learn from your mistakes if you so make them.

Don't hurt the guy your with end it soon if you don't feel strong and are not willing to work at your current relationship. That would be emotionally cheating in a way what your doing with your ex at the moment.

Back off a bit from him if your dad (After having a chat) will not let you see him. Tell him Its not wize that you two do not see each other for a while. It will be hard but what doesn't kill you makes you stronger and hey plenty more years of life left yet!

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