Its like she doesn't want to be with me she won't even kiss me.

Sorry to say, but it sounds like your time is up with this relationship.
Have you actually tried talking to her ?

Should I put my hands around her waist and kiss her?

How old are you? It sounds like the relationship is over - https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/person...ml#post3398051

Start with talking to her before you make moves. There is a reason she doesn't want to even kiss you so ask her what it is.

What am I meant to say?

Would you please answer my question - how old are you?

17

Yeah, answer the question. Age makes a difference in how this will be answered.

Edit- Too late!

How old is she?

Have you tried talking to her?

The first thing that comes to mind... does she actually know that she is your girlfriend? You may think I'm making fun of you but that is not the case... does she know or does she just think you are friends only?

If she knows, then it really sounds like she isn't ready for this or maybe isn't ready for you.

I'm a female (last time I checked). The kiss usually doesn't just happen. Something leads up to it, hand holding, hugging, something...

I wouldn't pounce on her, hands around her waist. One of my best kisses was someone who said to me, "I find the first kiss to be awkward so why don't I kiss you now and get it over with." We laughed and laughed - but I kissed him and, by the way, I married him.

And, yes, we were adults.

And if your concern is how to keep her from leaving you I would work on the relationship before I worked on the kissing aspect. She's your girlfriend but you've never kissed her? Is this in the US?

She's 17
And no I don't know what to say and yeah she knows she's my girlfriend,she asked me out!
And well then what do I do!

Your first step is talking to her and seeing what she has to say.

If she doesn't want to kiss you, it really doesn't matter old how you are, whether 17 or 71, like me. It's time to move on, find someone who really likes you.
But first, a good relationship must have a willingness to talk about anything. Have you talked with her about it? Ask her why she won't kiss you? Good luck.

Wow! So is that what I should do? And wouldn't the first kiss help the relationship? Maybe she would stay with me? And yeah I've never known how to,I'm to shy and don't know how to make the first move! And no

Fredg-will do,thank you!

Yeah, thank god Fredg came along and told you to talk to her... whew! Without him, you wouldn't have known that.

Almost everyone else told you earlier to talk to her... did you miss that? Now suddenly you had a life changing revelation?

And I've also been asking what I'm meant to say but none of you answered! Look mate if you ent going to help get lost!

Oh, Jodie - I'd suggest you read the rules of AMHD.

You are way out of line. I suggest you stop giving advice until you can understand the advice you've been given.

And it's good that someone comes along and sums up what everyone else has said - repeatedly.

That made sense?
And ha okay.

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And I've also been asking what I'm meant to say but none of you answered! Look mate if you ent going to help get lost!

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What you're meant to say? You talk to her about why she won't kiss you or what's wrong... you needed us to tell you that? Come on now. You are going out with her, right? You don't know what to say to her if something is bothering you? Do you need a script written for you? It's not as hard as you are making it out to be.

I would think if the question is to what to say before you kiss someone you would say: "I'd like to kiss you." Seems rather simple to me.

Of course, if the relationship is rolling downhill rapidly, I'd ask about that first.

I'd also ask how you and she are bf/gf and have never kissed - ?