My new man is finding it hard I'm a stripper, need advice
I’m a stripper and I've spent the last couple of years working away dancing as a stripper in the big strip clubs around the world, amazing job as I’ve got to travel and meet amazing people doing this.
I’m 24 and been dancing since I was 19, I done all my college in business but changed my mind and didn’t want a boring 9 to 5 job and wanted to do something different,
I’ve always liked a bit of attention and like my body so decided to be a stripper as I heard the money was amazing.
Just so you know, not all stripper do this because they have has bad background, I’ve had a good upbringing, never anything bad.
I do drink sometimes in week but mainly at weekends, never do drugs, would never have sex for money, I like to go out and let my hair down some times but I would say most girls my age do.
I am I nice girl not all strippers are bad and I would never cheat in a relationship, I sometimes can be too soft if I like them.
Ok about my new man, I’ve been seeing him for only a month and I did NOT meet him in a strip club, I would never meet up with customers. We amazing together hit it off soon as we met, we just clicked. I feel safe around him and feel I can be myself, it’s strange to feel like this as it’s so soon,
My visa ran out, and I can only come back to see him for 3 months,
I know I have to stop one day can't strip forever and do something else but before I do that I need to study again,
So I’m looking into beauty and studying it where my new man lives,
I don’t know what to do as he said if I become his girlfriend I need to stop stripping,
He told me to save my money up now so in 3 months when I back over I won’t have to strip when I’m studying then get a real job in a bar if I need money.
I will need so work as a stripper as I’m studying as I will need money.
He also says my mind set for me seeing that its right to be a stripper needs to change
I really like my job as a stripper never been so happy, yes I do like him more but wish he would let me just stay stripping till I was ready to stop
I think if he liked as much as he said he does he could just put up with it till I finished studying but he says he doesn’t think he can
He is religious he a Christian that’s part of why he says he does what me doing it, also he only wants to see my body,
So wish he could just see it’s a job and be happy for me that I’m happy and that I make good money, and forget the job and see I could be the be the best girlfriend he ever had
I know a lot of people think bad about strippers but some of us are really not bad at all
please tell me what you think
he a Christian thats part of why he says he does not like me doing it