10 month girlfriend thinks I'm too good for her
I have been dating my girlfriend for almost 11 months. Tonight she was sad so I asked her what was wrong. She said I feel like I'm not good enough for you. I said why is that? She said I don't know. Then she started crying and said she thought about breaking up with me because I'm too good for her but she doesn't want to. The rest of the night I just tried to make her happy and tell her that she was good enough for me and she's the only person I want. Now I'm thinking is she just saying that as an excuse to break up and give me a hint? Or do girls really feal like they aren't good enough sometimes? We have never had any trouble and she is pretty clingy. I just need some advice. Thanks :confused:
Broke up with girlfriend of 13 months
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My girlfriend and I just broke up a few hours ago after 13 months.
We broke up because "I don't trust her" that's what she said. I have trusted her until about 2 weeks ago. She used to be so clingy, texting me 24/7 and wanting to hang out always and hated when I talked to other girls. Two weeks ago she stopped texting me as much and she blamed it on her being busy. She doesn't even work or anything. Last week I went to hang out with my friend who is a girl that she doesn't like because I had a crush on this girl 2 years ago. My girlfriend didn't even care that I went to hang out with this girl which was a HUGE shock. Then I text my girlfriend asking what she was doing, and she said "just watchin tv". I'm like OK call me, and she doesn't answer all of a sudden after we have just been texting back and forth. I'm like your going to hate me for this but I don't think you're even home right now. That's when she said "I can't do this if you wont believe me". So I said "Fine, bye".
Don't you think if it was trust issues she would just try and work it out with me, because she says she loves me. Love means working things out and getting through things in my opinion.
It hurts me so much for us to break up, but I really think she is cheating on me or lost interest.
I just want some advice on if I handled it correctly or not, or if I made a big mistake.
Girlfriend likes another guy
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I have posted here like two other time because our relationship has been rocky the past couple of months. We have broken up, but gotten back together the day of or the day after. This hasn't happened until 2 months ago.
- This all happened yesterday -
It started with her saying she had a bad day at school. I asked why? She just said she didn't really know teachers are just being annoying or something. So I left it at that and say oh OK.
We then go to the pool and go swimming. Two hours later we are back at her house.
She randomly says she wants to stop having sex and to be a virgin again. I asked why? She says your not going to like this but I like another guy at school. Im said "What the hell how long have you liked him" She says "two days". I'm not sure how she can throw out her boyfriend who she always and still does say she loves for a guy she has liked for two days...
I asked her if this guy is more attractive than me, smarter than me, nicer than me? She says no he reminds me of you. I REALLY don't understand that... Anyway so we broke up.
I'm so tempted to text her or something, I'm trying to do NC. Friends are telling me she will try contacting me within a week because she will regret it and such. But honestly I don't want to get back with her because who is to say she won't do this again. But then again I do want to get back with her because maybe she will learn from the mistakes and I love this girl a lot. I thought she was different from other girls and would never do this kind of thing. She has seemed to change for the past 2 months, her old friend thinks so too, so I don't get what's going on. I need help :(