I've met a great guy, he SEEMS funny, caring, kind and he's gorgeous. We met in a bar and I ended up staying the night as his place. Bad move maybe, because I didn't exactly know the guy, but he turned out to be genuine. I really do like him, and we've only seen each other twice. But we spent so long just talking, getting to know each other.
Anyway, the last time I met him I asked him where we go from here? In his eyes, "seeing" someone is kind of dating them, but "going out" with someone is like being engaged to them. But to me, if you're just "seeing" someone, it's nothing, just having sex on a regular basis! So we didn't get anywhere, we just left it at that. He's been texting me a lot. But I just don't know how to approach the subject again. I'd like him to be my boyfriend, but I don't want to pressure him.
Obviously I don't know him well at all. But it's like I've met "the one". We just kind of clicked and I think I could really really get to like him.
Should I just leave it as it is and go see him again whenever he asks me? Give it time? I just want to know where I stand, without scaring him away...