How do I get over the "closure".
I am new to this site and appreciate all of the helpul tips on moving on after being dumped. The isights offered are really inspiring and the experience people have are a true help in my situation. I was recently dumped by my ex girlfriend a little over a month ago. We have dated for roughly 4 1/2 years. She was my first love, but in the end we really grew apart. At any rate, I think in my mind I held out that we would get back together eventually, and my pain would be eased. That thought is now only wishful thinking. I was out on Friday for my birthday and ran into a couple of her friends, whom are really fond of me and understand my pain. At any rate, one of her friends bought me a shot and then started telling me, out of nowhere, that my ex is already seeing this guy, whose name is Chris, like mine. This caused a masive meltdown and of course ruined my night. My ex heard about this and called me the next day to pretty much confirm everything I had heard. Guess she started seeing this guy like two or three weeks after she dumped me. I now have my closure, but it really hurts to think about. I guess it is for the best that I no longer consider ever getting back together with her, but I was wondering if anyone else has run across a situation where they find out their ex is dating someone so soon after a long and passionate relationship. Thanks for the support!