Happy new year 2010 to all. I was thinking of my ex today, so I decided to come here and post. It will be a year soon since the breakup. Feb 14.

I am doing a lot better, hope you guys are doing better too.
I dated some girls on and off, nothing serious...
I thought christmas and new years was going to be really hard but finally it was'nt too bad...

I had some news of my ex today from a family member that saw her, aparently she isn't looking too good...

I wish I did not get any news at all...
Why does it bother us to have news of our ex?

Can't you tell the family member that you want no updates on the ex? I hope you can look upon it as a minor bump in the road:what she does or how she feels honestly really doesn't matter anymore,does it?
Just keep busy doing your own thing.
Happy 2010 to you too!

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why does it bother us to have news of our ex?

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Because we are human, and our old memories, and feelings, get stirred up rather easy.

Thanks guys, it helped, I think I am at a point of no return, even if she would call me now, I would not be able to go back. Too much time has passed. I also met a great girl that I really get
Along with and enjoy spending time with.

Amazing.. I read all the posts.. It shows actually all stages after broke up. Piran.. U are a good guy and she lost you.. Some girls like that doesn't know what they want.. and they endup with whatever they can get after some ages... They always choice to runaway if something goes wrong in relationship because they now they can get some1else at that point.. But she will come to point that her decision was mistake.. But really it doesn't matter how she feels now... Love is gone..

U deserve someone really care about you.. and someone who can stay next to you when you lost your job or when you are down.. Someone you can trust...