Trust me once you make your mind up it fades quicker then you might think.

Back in worktown, so at just 300 metres of her! But much much better than last month. I just went shopping for clothes with a girlfriend (not romantic) and that was good. Hanging in here!

Good to hear-not shopping weather here-pouring down rain.
You re on the right path now!

I am on the right path, but still shaky, I can't understand how she can be so mad that she does not want to talk to me! What did I do?? Anyway, I am getting better and better.

There are so many things we ll never understand and so many questions that will never be answered.
After some time all that becomes unimportant and a thing of the past.
Trust me on that one.

I know Monica, have had experience in the past, although it seems I have a strong tendency to dwell on things...

It just takes time Harrie and you had that setback a while ago.
We re all the total of our previous experiences and we grow with each new one however hurtful they seem at the time.

Small update... I am getting incredibly fit do to working out a lot and cycling.. I am in worktown and must admit I did some stalking.. why does she have to live almost right in sight of me! Anyway, I have started to date a little bit, and have a lot of success... We'll see how it goes. Still not over her but wayyyyyy better!

Accidental stalking I hope!
Good luck with the dating and keep getting better.

Hi friends. Still lurking here. I have to say I feel a lot better than I did when I came here! However, I still think of her almost all the time. Without the desperate emotions, but still. I sometimes look at her Facebook foto (that is all I can see) and have the idea she is still alone.

Am I normal to still think about her so much? Should I act on it?

Stop staring at her photo, and continue leaving her alone. Stay away from that web page and I'll bet you won't think about her as much.

Tal said it very well but I ll add my two cents-every time you look at her picture you take a step back-dont do it!:-)

Hey guys, back again. My oldest son had a bad accident with his scooter, he is fine but it was a scare and 3 weeks hospital! The good thing that came out of it that finally after 5 years I am talking with my ex-wife again (about the kids that is!)

Anyway, I had a low moment, thought about HER way too much and then wrote her an email, telling her about my son, and telling her I think about her, that I still miss her etc. bla bla bla. Although well written, you will hate me for this!

Anyway, I am still not over her. I must have a problem!

I'm sorry to hear about your son-hopefully well on the mend now!
Well that w a s naughty of you- but Ill not give you a big telling off-you know the drill by now.
You lived in hope for so long that's why you ve still got a way to
Go.
All the best from rainy old England.
We even had SNOW the other day.

Hello friends! Just to keep you in the loop. I am still not cured, but guess I learned to live with it. Yesterday I "saw" her on meetic... she has put a profile there... I clicked on it, she also on mine, and then she proceeded to remove her picture... Wonder what she is thinking... ah well...

All I can say is feliz navidad.
And all the best for 2010.

Hi guys! Checking back in. You have been here for me in the worst times. I am doing fine now, although I still think about her a lot, but it doesn't hurt anymore. Something curious happened, she "unblocked" me in Facebook, that means, I can search for her and find her again. I won't contact her, but was thinking, does that mean anything?

Whether they like you, or not, they get curious, especially if you have disappeared from their lives.

My Facebook is admitting non friends to see part of the content, so she is able to see some posts and pictures. Do I change that now? Do I block her? Or just leave it be?

Anybody any ideas on this?