So you can't win, no matter what you do.Quote:
Originally Posted by Steve1010
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So you can't win, no matter what you do.Quote:
Originally Posted by Steve1010
You are so whipped! I give up.
Call her, let her continue to walk all over you.
Hey, maybe you can watch while she's having sex with other guys, then at least you can still be a part of it all.
You obviously want this girl (good or bad) in your life.
Oh, just so I know, what will it finally take for you to call it quits? How badly does she have to treat you before you grow a pair and leave?
I'd like to know, is there a limit of abuse you'll take, or can she continue to do anything and everything she wants and you won't budge?
I think she's confused, she's not going to have sex with other guysQuote:
Originally Posted by Altenweg
I really think she is the one!
The one what? The one that will continuously stab you in the heart and walk away laughing? Ya, you may be right.Quote:
Originally Posted by Steve1010
Don't u think it will get better? That she's confused about a lot of things? She said she will try and reall think about us being back into a relationship
She obviously doesn't want to end this, because she came back an hour later
I just want to rescue her from all her problems I love her so much
And what about last night, all the texts, all the hurtful words, all the controlling behaviour and insanity. Have you managed just to forget all that? Have you put it aside as unimportant?Quote:
Originally Posted by Steve1010
No, I don't think she will change, why, because she doesn't have to. You accept all of her manipulative hurtful ways, you're a puppy on a string and she knows she can kick you as often as she wants and you'll keep coming back begging for more. Why would she change? She doesn't have any reason to. Heck you can't even keep yourself from calling for a few hours, she's got you by the balls and she knows it.
You need to wake up and smell the coffee.
Cool she hasn't said anything in 90 minutes
If you love something let it go... :rolleyes:Quote:
Originally Posted by Steve1010
How do I wake up and smell the coffee, without losing her?Quote:
Originally Posted by Altenweg
Why would u let something go u love?
But she's still got you watching, waiting.Quote:
Originally Posted by Steve1010
Yup, she's got you by the balls, she doesn't even have to try, you just walk over and hand them to her to do with as she pleases.
Sad.
Well what do u want me to do!
I don't think this is love at all, that's why.Quote:
Originally Posted by Steve1010
Love is a two way street, you're in the middle of the road begging her not to run you over with the car. Sad thing is, you beg and beg and beg, she still hits you with the car and then backs up to do it again. As soon as you're healed you're back in the middle of the road begging for more. That's not love, that's dependence, and it's not healthy.
I know, I can't sleep and I barley eat.. I feel like throwing up all the time, I have a couple times.. but I don't know what id do without her. I need help
It's not about what I want, it's about you.Quote:
Originally Posted by Steve1010
Do you want to be treated like an unwelcome mat all your life or do you want to be in a relationship with someone that's actually nice to you, respects you, doesn't treat you worse then she would a slug?
None of us can tell you what to do, but you asked for advice, you got it and then the entire night you sat here telling us how hard it is and how much you want to do exactly what we said you shouldn't.
You're not a child, stop acting like one. Either fish or cut bait, but pick one and stick to it!
I'm done.
Good luck, you'll need it.
O wow, my heart just dropped.. she just added that guy she slept with a couple months ago on fbook :( omg
That's the first thing you said that makes sense. Yes, you do. She's like an addiction to you and like any addiction she's ruining your life.Quote:
I need help
You do need help, but more then we can offer here. Think about seeing a counsellor about this.
Good luck.
And if you hadn't been watching her, stalking her, you wouldn't know, would you?Quote:
Originally Posted by Steve1010
Seriously, you need more help then we have to give, or at least more then I have to give. Everything that's said goes in one ear and out the other.
Take care.
Why does it make sense! She just added him as a friend!Q WHAT IS GOING ON HERE!
Why would she add him? Why. She said he like had sex w her and she wasn't aware and didn't want it
You can resue her but you can resue yourself.
You need to work on healing yourself because you are making yourself sick and the next thing you know you have depression.
She is out living and enjoying her life while your misery and your life is being turned upside down.
Maybe you should get some counseling because your having problems letting her go because your chosing not to.
How much longer do you want to stay in this funk? How much longer are you going beg and plead for someone to be with you?
She isn't the only girl out there you know you have a lot of options.
Why would she add him... why after breaking w me. Then saying she loves me.. and now won't answer. And was hinting about being w others all along.. was she cheating?
Is anyone else thinking troll?
Troll?
Please I need support here.. I feel so horrible and hurt the worst I've felt. Someone please
She's not answering me either...
Now she said I don't have a thing with him, nor do I like him one single bit
She said he's been adding her for months, and she finnally just accepted it
You want help, fine. Go back to page one of this thread, read every post, every bit of advice that you received, then think about it.
If you do all of that and actually listen to the advice you get instead of treating this thread like a chat room play by play of what you're girlfriend is doing, then you'll be fine.
Or you could continue doing what you're doing, driving yourself crazy looking at her Facebook, watching the phone to see if she's texted and continue to ignore all the advice we have given.
Why would any of us stay when you won't listen anyway?
Yes Alty I am beginning to think so.
Steve take a chill pill and sit back to catch your breathe because your rambling and rambling on.
Are you even listening? Your letting this girl take over your life.
Get some counseling asap!
Call the nineline at 1-800-999-9999.
That doesn't make any sense.Quote:
Originally Posted by Steve1010
Okay she is telling you she loves you too death BUT
That is like one of those break ups where she tells you I love you but its me that has the problem not you.
Forget it and get over her. She is pulling your strings and not in love.
OK.. then tell me one more time what I should do. And ill do it
No you won't, all of us have told you, you don't even acknowledge that we've posted, you just come back rambling about her Facebook and texts etc. etc.Quote:
Originally Posted by Steve1010
I gave my advice, go find it, that will keep your mind off things.
Loook please. I rambled on and on because I thought you guys could identify what she's doing, one more time please tell me what you think.. I promise ill listen please.. anything to make myself feel better
Forget it and get over her.Quote:
Originally Posted by Steve1010
There is a saying ''let them go and if they come back then it is real.
What she is doing is playing games.
She must not be that in love with you or she would be straight with what she wants or doesn't want.
But she keeps coming back? All the time!
Then you have to be the strong one and tell her that she is playing too many games and you don't want the games so you feel it is time to do no contact for at least two months or until she can be honest with herself and you about what she wants.
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