She may just be reminding you that the dog needs shots. Nothing more than that.
That she wants more may be a kind of wishful thinking on your part, hoping she still thinks about you.
Call the vet, take the dog in and be done with it.

Yep could be that too, I was going sort it out next week. Received an abusive text from her at 1am saying that I don't 'reserve the right not to talk to her and that we are still sharing the dog etc.' haven't bothered replying to it yet, figured she was drunk when she sent it. So it looks like I'm going to have to sort it all out then and break NC, not happy!

Didn't you tell her you were going NC and what it meant? If you did, there is nothing to sort out. Stick to the NC. She'll get over it.

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So it looks like I'm going to have to sort it all out then and break NC, not happy!

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Then don't.

I don't understand why you have to contact her :confused:

Its your dog and its at your parents place. End of story right?

Yep I figured when I said you will 'never here from me or see me ever again' that she would understand it, I think it is a pretty blunt and direct statement. She hasn't gotten the hint though.

Or she's testing you... prove you meant what you said.

Sounds like you haven't gotten the hint.

What NC means.

Want me to explain it to you again?

Geez. Like I said this whole dog thing was to fish & relieve some guilt on her part.

"Received an abusive text from her at 1am saying that I don't 'reserve the right not to talk to her"

See, NC was working & you blew it. Caved in.

Understand now?

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Yep i figured when I said you will 'never here from me or see me ever again' that she would understand it, I think it is a pretty blunt and direct statement. She hasn't gotten the hint though.

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So what if she has not gotten it. There is no reason for you to reply or contact her. Why would you, unless deep inside you want to.