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  • May 25, 2009, 09:21 PM
    Steve1010
    It will show I don't care if were done if I don't answer! That's what she will say!
  • May 25, 2009, 09:21 PM
    Steve1010
    She said she's EFFIN DEAD SERIOUS

    O god, she said were officially done forever, good bye u a*s
  • May 25, 2009, 09:22 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Steve1010 View Post
    it will show i dont care if were done if i dont answer! thats what she will say!

    Don't answer.
  • May 25, 2009, 09:26 PM
    BlackVY

    Wow... that is a lot to read...

    Steve... I've been there... more than once... if she is playing these games with u, and flipping around from day to day, can you imagine how a future with her in your life will be? Do you think it will be good?

    Think about it. If she stops behaving like this, there may be a chance, but she needs to work this out for herself, get herself right.

    You have to be strong. If she is not acting right now, don't go crawling back to her if she tells you she is seriously breaking pu with you if you don't reply to her. That's so wrong.

    I don't think you did anything to deserve this, so she needs to sort herself out and come to you. If she doesn't, then its for the best, because trust me, you don't want to be with someone like this. You deserve better. No matter how much you think you love someone, this just is not right.
  • May 25, 2009, 09:27 PM
    Steve1010

    Thanks man, she hasn't replied since she said were done and over forever if you don't answer. I'm really worried that she's serious :(
  • May 25, 2009, 09:29 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Steve1010 View Post
    thanks man, she hasnt replied since she said were done and over forever if u dont answer. im really worried that shes serious :(

    She's not serious. In fact, she's worried, and that's good.
  • May 25, 2009, 09:30 PM
    Steve1010
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    She's not serious. In fact, she's worried, and that's good.

    How do you know she's not serious? Why would she say that then? Its going to bug me all night now. I don't know how or what I will say to her tommorro night
  • May 25, 2009, 09:31 PM
    Steve1010

    Why is she calling me names then because I don't asnwer? Now she said...

    "hun can't believe ur ending it like this"
  • May 25, 2009, 09:31 PM
    Steve1010
    Excuse me, not HUN... she said HUH
  • May 25, 2009, 09:32 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Steve1010 View Post
    how do u know shes not serious? why would she say tht then? its gonna bug me all night now. idk how or what i will say to her tommorro night

    She said that because it is what a puppet master / manipulator says.

    Can you not reply to her all day on Tues?
  • May 25, 2009, 09:33 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Steve1010 View Post
    why is she calling me names then because i dont asnwer? now she said...

    "hun can't believe ur ending it like this"

    I thought she said it was over. Why is she still texting you?
  • May 25, 2009, 09:33 PM
    Steve1010

    She said I can't believe your ending it like this..
  • May 25, 2009, 09:33 PM
    Steve1010
    But now it really is over that's what she said
  • May 25, 2009, 09:35 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Steve1010 View Post
    but now it really is over thats what she said

    Yeah, right.

    Don't answer her.
  • May 25, 2009, 09:35 PM
    BlackVY

    See? She said "Its over, goodbye" and stuff, then she comes back to you and asked you why you are doing this

    She needs to take some time out and see what you are doing and why you are doing it.

    She needs to see that you are not replying to her because you are hurt and she has been hurting you, that she is not right and she needs to work herself out. Then maybe you will talk to her and be with her again, if you choose

    So talking to her now and replying to her is not going to give her to chance to see and think about what she is doing wrong.
  • May 25, 2009, 09:35 PM
    Steve1010

    What is she thinking right now? Ahh god.
  • May 25, 2009, 09:36 PM
    Steve1010
    She's calling me now!!
  • May 25, 2009, 09:36 PM
    BlackVY
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Steve1010 View Post
    what is she thinking right now? ahh god.

    Hopefully she is thinking:

    "Oh no, I've gone too far and now he won't talk to me again. What have I done? Am I that bad to him? Maybe I am. What can I do to make him talk to me again?"
  • May 25, 2009, 09:36 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Steve1010 View Post
    what is she thinking right now? ahh god.

    She is right where we want her.
  • May 25, 2009, 09:37 PM
    Steve1010
    How will she realize what's she's doing wrong? She will just be like UR THE BIGGEST A*hole IN THE WORLD WOW HOW COULD U DO THIS

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