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  • Jun 12, 2009, 06:04 AM
    kctiger

    Delete her posts and defriend her... an ex is not a friend, in my book. She has brought up emotions in you just from pure speculation. That kind of BS is never worth it. Keep moving forward.
  • Jun 12, 2009, 06:41 AM
    ayejay0601

    Agreed with all. Curiosity indicates that some feelings are still there. You will be more upset than you think when you find out she fell in love with someone else and got married.
  • Jun 12, 2009, 07:03 AM
    Romefalls19

    Curiosity killed the cat


    Happy Friday
  • Jun 12, 2009, 07:04 AM
    Romefalls19

    Best news today so far
  • Jun 12, 2009, 09:07 AM
    jmooney527
    Maybe we should start a "success story" sticky with people and what they found most useful with the advice they're given here ;) :D
  • Jun 12, 2009, 09:15 AM
    I wish
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by bigdee View Post
    Yeah I doubt I'll follow up. It was just a little weird to see that change in her name.

    Don't let your curiosity get the best of you. Time to move on to bigger and better things. No more living in the past or getting updates about your ex.
  • Jun 12, 2009, 02:15 PM
    talaniman
    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...-304709-5.html

    Speaking of a good ending. Or at least a step in the right direction.
  • Jun 13, 2009, 09:57 PM
    jlove09

    Awesome stuff.
    Hopefully, after seeing her (if I do) I can do the whole NC.
  • Jun 15, 2009, 04:45 PM
    bigdee

    Everyone, thanks for all the kind words!

    NC is something that we all learn the minute we join the board but it is so incredibly hard to follow despite all the advice.. I hope my story helps people stick to NC when they feel themselves slipping...
  • Jun 15, 2009, 04:47 PM
    bigdee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Romefalls19 View Post
    Curiosity killed the cat


    Happy Friday

    Yup. Even if I think I'm done with it, who knows what curiosity will stir up?

    Again thanks to all.
  • Jun 16, 2009, 06:37 PM
    bigdee

    Wow! Interesting to see all my threads merged into one... 15 pages! :-P
  • Jun 16, 2009, 07:43 PM
    chuff

    I married her and she won't shut up, God I'd do anything to get out of this. Just kidding, but the point is it doesn't really matter if she got married or not, a ring does not equal happiness, and your happiness is all that matters.

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