Been single for a year now after a 7 year relationship
Hi everyone,
It has been a year since I broke off from a long term relationship of 7 years. I still miss my ex. Sometimes I think its becasue I haven't been with anyone else after him. I'm focusing on my school work and all but at the same time I get sad thinking about if I will ever care for someone the way I cared for my ex. I think about calling him sometimes, but I don't. No contact has worked really well and eased away confusion. I think about the last times he tried contacting me again and that I didn't answer. I think to myself maybe I should have answered. I know I hurt him by ending things the way I did. But he also hurt me while we were together. And then to deal with him wanting me then not wanting me hurt even more after I was offering us another chance together.
I will admit this though... I'm still hurt but not as close as months ago when I couldn't even eat or cried myself to sleep every night.
Any suggestions? Should I call him back?
NC for a year and I feel like breaking it?
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