It's good you ended the call first. Take control.
You know - YOU might think this is a game, but... you should make plans for coffee and then break them at the last minute. Kind of show the un-importance to him - show him he doesn't have you - which I think was part of the problem.
People Want What They Can't Have.
When you completely surrender to them - the games over. Even when you are about to get married it helps to have that sense that thye could slip away.
He keeps stringing you along.