I know half of my pain is not knowing if its true or not. :S I'm in bad shape right now I'm sorry

It's fine... I'm just trying to help you avoid more pain. If he wants to recant his claim then he will call.. My question to you, why would you want to be with someone who takes his problems always out on you?

He does it everyone. Like he doesn't yell or anything but if he's upset about something he will just not want to talk at all

Like when I'm upset I talk and talk and talk as u see lol were opposite in those ways

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he does it everyone. like he doesnt yell or anything but if hes upset about something he will just not want to talk at all

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I am the same way. If someone burns me I don't express anger/emotion towards that. I'm a quiet angry person.

Give him space, don't call as it will only exacerbate things. He obviously felt pressured etc, so putting more on him will make him shut you out completely.

Hello, as many of you know my boyfriend and I broke up last night. I still can't get an appetite , any advice anyone can give me?

Not really a way to fix the feeling... just go hang out with old friends and do things that you did before. Pick up a new hobby or find a new one... work out, do anything you can to keep it off your mind. Spend some time on you... make your life about you again because after all, that's what is important.

You'll be like that for about a week. Force yourself to eat something, even if it's just a handful of cereal. Eventually, being alone will become normal, and you'll eat again.

You'll be okay. Just be yourself, you need to keep your energy up. Allow it it's proper griefing period and do some soul searching and thinking. Why did you break up? What could you have done differently? What part do you miss? Is it worth the heartache?

I could not eat last week. I would try but I just could not eat. I even threw up one morning I was feeling so bad. Try to eat. I felt like a zombie for 2 days because of the lack of sleep and not being able to sleep.

AS everyone says time will make it better. I feel better then a week ago and trust me I was hitting really low.

Weed :)

I'd say either
a. force yourself to eat something
Or b. go out to dinner with people, I find that when other people are having dinner it feels too weird not to eat with them XD

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weed :)

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That is obviously not going to solve her problem... I almost gave you a reddie...

I am about to start a new job in 1hour and half. And I'm still really stressed out over my breakup. My head is just pounding and I still feel like puking! Anyway is there anyway to get more calm before I start work?? I am not nervous at all about my job , its just retail and I've have a lot of experience in retail. Also I feel really faint.

I'm so sorry to hear that, a breakup is never easy, whether you're the dumper or the dumpee. The best way to get over a breakup is a distraction... and the best kind of distraction is a job.

Think about this, it's a new job, which means you'll meet new people, new working environment, and of course, money! And since this is your first day of work, you'll have to be somewhat chipper to be friendly and courteous to your new co-workers.

Don't think of this job as something you "have to do" but a fun and new experience for you to use to get over your ex. Who knows, maybe you'll meet someone even better?

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Go out to dinner with people

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By going out with other people,you have them to "distract" you from your pain :)

I know this can't be easy,but it will get better in time.

You've done the first step,by posting here,and sharing with us~~well done :)

It is OK, don't eat, cry and get over it with time

It's understandable you're struggling right now. If you can't eat, get some Ensure or other liquid meal replacement & sip on that so you can at least get some nourishment.

Hope you feel better soon...

OK I know many of you have read my other posts. I talked to my bf/ex tonight and he says he needs 1 more week to think (NC). Ok we have been in long distance (2000miles) for 1 year and half and we have seen each other every few months through it. He told me his parents are going through financial difficulties and he might not be able to come in December anymore and I'm about to start school in January. He thinks its best if we break up (but he's not sure) because we won't be able to see each other very much. I am willing to pay to see him but he wants me to focus more on my career. I love him so much and I don't want to lose him (my school is 1 year) and his is 4years (hes in his first year). I told him we have done so long already in distance and I am willing to stay with him and work it out because it will be so worth it when we are able to be together! I don't no what to do I love him so much and I am afriad he isn't strong enough to do the distance anymore. I'm so upset what do you guys think? I can't imagine my life without him or talking to him. :( help I need advice or opinions. I know you guys will think its best to break up but we will be able to be together in about a year or so because I will have my certificate so I could work

Someone respond.. :( !