Originally Posted by
chicago95
Wow! That's something I never really considered. When I ask her if she loves him, she says no. Do you wanna spend the rest of your life with him? No. She and I are even seeing counselors/pscyh 'cuz she feels this is happening for a reason and wants to know what's holding her back and mine has told me to keep seeing her, that her issues are workable, that it's apparent she loves me and were it not for that, it might be hopeless. Guess love conquers all? But a real Q is this. Her dysfunctional husband is also seeing a counselor...she doesn't know why nor has asked (they talk very little). Might he be trying to cope or try to justify getting a divorce as he has told her he doesn't believe in divorce but also stated adultery is grounds for divorce. Can't help but think if she really told him what was going on, he wouldn't be so understanding. But she doesn't want to be the adulterer...even though she already is. Thoughts?