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Originally Posted by Geoffersonairplane

However, the problem with this is that we live in a world where not everyone feels the same way and this is where our destructive side comes in. In a way, we are our own worst enemy, do you think?

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Exactly, many of us are slaves to our minds. Like you said, our own mid is our worst enemy. We try to focus, and out mind wanders off. We try to keep stress at bay, but anxiety keeps us awake at night. We try to be good to the people we love, but then we forgot and put ourselves first... So the most important task for us is to work with our mind and emotional states that can help us in any activity in which we engage, whether it's sports or business or study-or a religion path.:)

P.S. I assume you had a large amount of coffee today by looking at your pic. How about the simley face tiger?:p

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P.S. I assume you had a large amount of coffee today by looking at your pic. How about the simley face tiger?:p

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I liked the Smiley face tiger, the coffee woke me up, can I show the smiling tiger to everyone else to cheer them up?

Okay I will.

http://images.jupiterimages.com/comm...5/22836552.jpg

I am petting the smiley face tiger,;) do u think it's okay with him:rolleyes: , or he will jump up and bite me:confused:

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I am petting the smiley face tiger,;) do u think it's okay with him:rolleyes: , or he will jump up and bite me:confused:

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Not sure, I think you should ask him. :p

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Originally Posted by Geoffersonairplane

Not sure, I think you should ask him. :p

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But, I don't know his number or any contact info... :confused:

Do you think you can ask him for me?:rolleyes: I know you guys are bros:D

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But, I don't know his number or any contact info....:confused:

Do you think you can ask him for me?:rolleyes: I know you guys are bros:D

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He just told me he can't, he's too shy and besides, he said he is married and his wife will get Jealous.

He just sent me a picture of his angry wife.

This is when she saw a text message from another tiger and suspected he may be cheating.

http://fugato.net/wp-content/uploads...ngry_tiger.jpg

Personally I think he's winding me up, I've never seen him with anyone that gorgeous.

Nice tiger, Nice... Ok I will blow him a kiss, so darn cute!! SWAK!!

LOL, I thought that's a female tiger... :D
May I pet his wife-the female tiger;)

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He just sent me a picture of his angry wife.

This is when she saw a text message from another tiger and suspected he may be cheating.

http://fugato.net/wp-content/uploads...ngry_tiger.jpg

Personally I think he's winding me up, I've never seen him with anyone that gorgeous.

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I can't see the pic of his wife... :p

:rolleyes: :rolleyes: :)

I'm off for some tea (as in food) and a nice cup of coffee.

U thought you decide NC.;)
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P.S. NC=NO COFFEE :D

That tiger is a female, she nust have been on about the other one. Its hard to tell Gender with tigers.

Does the tiger eat sushi? Or she only drinks coffee;)

Male Tiger:

http://www.perlgurl.org/archives/ima..._3542_TceE.JPG


Female Tiger:

http://laelaps.files.wordpress.com/2007/02/rawr.jpg

I think the female must be angry at her ex or something.

:D
U too funny!
Muahahahaha, love the pics:D

So rude

My two closest friends have given me conflicting advice on this subject, so I turn to the board here to resolve the issue.

My ex has been out of town for about two weeks (traveling), and we will have been broken about 1.5 months when she returns. And yes, I am still interested in her.

Of these two options, which is the best option?

1. Wait until she's been home for 4-5 days, call her, ask about her trip, keep the conversation short and light.

2. Do not call her.

The reasoning of my friends differs in that one of them thinks the only way I will ever have a chance of getting back together with her is if I do something (e.g. call her), while the other think that the only way I will ever have a chance of getting back together with her is if I do nothing.

I have maintained NC to this point, save when she initiated contact with me a few times.

I am also willing to risk extending any process of healing that I am going through to maximize whatever chance that I may have of getting back together with her.

I thought we went over this in the thread about you sending her flowers?

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...ex-111261.html

You won't get many people here change their opinion / advice in a matter of a week or so.

Don't call her. Work on yourself. Continue healing. Your chances are slim to none of getting her back successfully and I can assure you that calling her now will make them even slimmer.