Yea... You'll be fine... Try not thinking about it so much... Do u have a car?
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Yea... You'll be fine... Try not thinking about it so much... Do u have a car?
30th Anniversary Trans Am with T-Tops... Chick magnet :)Quote:
Originally Posted by emopunk7
My ex is with some other gimp now. My loss no way! Get a life where your happy alone. One day someone else will come.
SAB.. Would you go to stores together and would she watch you shave while you are shaving? Would you massage her feet and carress her? Would you sing to her and drive her around? Would you help her do things and she help you?
You know... it's kind of a (editing language here) ummm... crappy thing for her to go by waving. Hun, if this is the 6th breakup you are better off without her. How long would it be, if she came back, until the next? Life is too short for that kind of thing...
Yes, and she took FOR ever and spent a lot of money.(most of the time)Quote:
Originally Posted by emopunk7
If she was their and I did, yes.Quote:
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Yes, This is one thing I miss the most and the holding her in my arms when we slept together and the kissing.Quote:
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I sang Faithfully by Journey to her when we first met (Our Wedding Song)Quote:
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YesQuote:
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Most of the timeQuote:
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NO she never did nothing or helped me? (Well... A few times)Quote:
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Sab please common move on now? She's gone so get busy and happy.
You can make some other girl happy SAB. Somebody who feels the way you do... She is dying for you to find her. Go make her happy and find her. The girl you don't know is the one for you. She is waiting for you! Are you going to find her or dwell in the terrible, confusing, non-caring past? I hope you choose wisely!
I am going throgh the same things right now. I No people say not to be friends with some one after a break up but I think you should. It will take some of the pain awayQuote:
Originally Posted by SAB123
I think I'm moving forward. Weekend went pretty good. I stayed busy didn't even think a lot about her. Then Sun night I just wanted to relax in my back yard. Then my ex's sons step brother drove buy looked but kept driving. Then 30 min later my ex and her son were on their bikes riding buy, I was so shocked that she did this. She looked at me and I looked at her she looked sad. I got upset that she was sad, and thought I wish I was on my bike with them as a family again. She looked so beautiful. But I'm starting to question myself a little if I want her back. So I know I'm healed more then I thought.
Its Hard To Get Over Your First Love That's Why I Refuse To Let Mine Go... if You Feel That The Relationship Isn't Right You Need To Just Let It Go... I Feel You Shouldn't Be Friends With That Person Eitgher... that Was My Mistake We Broke Up But I Wanted To Continue To Be Friends With Him And That Hasn't Done Anything But Make Me Grow Stronger Feelings For Him... the Only Thing You Can Do Is Stay Busy All The Time... find Something To Do To Occupy Your Time... I Wish You The Best Of Luck...
Sometimes, I wish I was like most here. Everyone telling me NO she's not coming back.
I Don't Think I Would Give Up On My Ex... if You Feel In Your Heart You Two Are Meant To Be Together Then Don't Give Up... the Only Thing You Could Do Is Expect The Worst So Then If The Worst Does Happen You Would Have Already Expected It... whats Suppose To Happen Will Happen... if You Feel That She's Wrong For You Then Why Would You Want To Be With Her? If You Feel You Won't Accomplish Anything With Her Then You Need To Let Her Go...
Good question. When you find out please let me know. It's been 2 years since my ex and I split. Seven months ago I stopped all contact with him and yet I still think of him and wonder how he's doing. I have moved on in my life but my heart is still his. God this sucks! I truly feel for you.Quote:
Originally Posted by SAB123
I think it is always not easy to find some one whom you can love very much.I have been into a hand full of relationships.but finally I got to know that the person I love the most wasthe first one only and rest are not my love , but I am with them cz I have to be with them.I cry for only one person, although he isn't with me anymore...
Well talking about u, I think you should keep going with someone ,whom you are with now. And the time will come when you will comletely forget her ,as it is just less time gone so far... n it will take someitme .well I would suggest that ,when you love someone ,just give him or her full independence don't run after him or her,if that person luvs you or misses u ,he or she will come back to u,no matter how long it takes.
Give her time and see what happens ,in the meanwhile you keep going with whom you like and are at present with. ;)
And you know what , it was all between us. And guess what ! He himself called me some months ago and shoed negative response , now we guys email each other,cz he isn't stable without me... lets see I think we will patch up.if we don't , then its OK ,am contended with life..
Hay just wait for the right moment to come .and as I said before. Just wait and keep your life going at the same and enjoy with others as well. But don't get serious with anyone ,cz if you get serious (altho you won't as your heart seems there only ) ;)... but keep enjoying around ,if she gets back its wonderful, if not then you keep going.
MAN LIFE DOES NOT STOP IT KEEPS GOING!
Personally, I think she is never going to let go of me. But I have to keep focused and keep moving forward without her. Deep down I know I'm healing. The pain is going away I think.
Ok, want to hear this from a woman? Do not put up with this... do you think she would put up with this from you? She sounds very conceited, snobbishrude, and conniving. I don't tell my husband he has to do all that stuff for me. If that's how she truly is, you're better off without her. The saddest note in this is the fact that her little boy is being dragged through this as well. That isn't your fault. If she calls don't answer. Be strong, stand up for yourself...
Keep going!
I do feel better noing she still cares about me and not dating anyone. Actually it was a big ego boost for me.
The only way to get an ex back, is to concentrate on yourself.
Go out on dates, have fun, take up new hobbies. Do all the things that she said you would never do.
Do not wallow in self pity, or beg her to come back, or constantly think about her. Nobody can tell you what the future holds. But I can tell you one thing - concentrating on yourself, and improving your own life is essential. If this doesn't bring her back, then it doesn't matter. You have probably attracted someone else by improving your own life. Make sense?
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Why is it so easy for guys to go and date other or talk to other females when were broken up but then if the female does it the male finds out about it were wrong...
I broke contact again today, but this time I feel pretty good. I asked if she was OK because when she road her bike past my house she looked at me with sad face. Plus why is she riding past my house in the first place. She wrote back and said, she was in a committed relationship and not to e-mail her any more. And said thanks if I was happy she had some one. Personally I think she is lying from what she has done with drive buys and the bike ride past my house. If I was dating someone I would not go past ex's house. But this time is different, I'm not up set and lately I have been thinking of her less and less. I think I'm finely getting over her. Because when she said she was now in a committed relationship something hit me, IF she is dating someone she has moved on, and that showed me Im wasting time and life on one woman. What the HELL was I doing, I think its time for me to start dating and find someone better for me. Because in the e-mail I did send I was nice to her. So in time when this dude figures out how she is I will be happy without her. Then mybe she will e-mail me. But I won't care then about her. I am finely starting to see her for what she is? I will be giving my opionion her on this site, So this will be my last post about my Ex Fiance but it is now time to move forward and not ever talk or bring my ex up ever again. For her what comes around goes around? My mom thinks my ex thinks I'm still not over her and she can put me on hold a little longer now that I have contacted her. She know I'm not dating either so let me think she dating to keep my mine on her. No, not know more I'm done with her and her games. So thank you to all those who have gotten me this far, now it's up to me to let go for good and when she drive by again, I won't be home and if I am I WILL ignore her like I have been.
P.S. If it is true, I feel sooooo sorry for this new guy. Because she's going to do the same thing to him.
It doesn't bother me no more she drives or rides past my house any more. Quite frankly I don't care any more. I have moved on and don't want her back. I say I am 95% over her. But when she drives buy and I am outside should I wave to her with a smile, like I don't care, because I don't. I would never take her back after doing what she's doing now.
Don't start anything you can't finish, as she may take your friendly gesture as a sign to start talking again, but NO CONTACT does not mean anti-social. You must decide if you can handle the consequences of your own actions. A very good time to be honest with yourself.
Why would you want to wave back after all she put you through. It doesn't matter what she thinks of you. Stay strong! We're in this together!
T-Man... Why would it be bad for her to start talking to him? Isn't that what he wants?
I guess if I do see her I will smile without waving unless she waves which I doubt because when she started waving 4 weeks ago I did not wave back. Plus after the e-mail I wrote a couple days ago I thinks she thinks I want her back and I don't. I just don't want her to think I'm weak and have not moved on. Which I have.
You have not moved on yet... You are almost there though.
I believe she still thinks I want her back, and I DO NOT want to give her ant ego boost.Quote:
Originally Posted by emopunk7
Yes I have moved on and do not want her back.Quote:
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I'm sorry SAB123... I really am... I have no idea why I said that. I guess I'm just down and I'm thinking you are me.If you say you have then what do I know. I'm still confused... I am pretty sure I don't want her but I miss things the way they were, so I'm half over it... I don't know why it hit me today for? I think it's because I'm not getting attention from many pretty girls. I'm wishing you the best my friend! Thank you for posting on my page... I had to vent... I was going nuts... lol I love this site! So what are your plans for today?
I Have moved on and don't want her back. I will never speak to her again, she made sure sure I new she had a boyfriend then contiues to drive and ride past my house. It's I would never do that to her even when she broke up with me. It's like she rubbing it in my face and she thinks she making me jealous, she is not. Personally I think she is starting to get signs of mental illness like her mom. Every time I see her she looks at me with a sad face. What she sooo sad about she says she has a boyfriend. AHHH! She such a user and game player. I am sooooo happy without her now.
You will soon have pretty girls after you! They can see rite through you. They sense you are sad and women want a happy man. I see what you are going through and I was once their and people helped me here. I will return the favor for a very long time on this site. I still hurt a little not from her but what she is doing to me now. That is sooo wrong. But tonight going out to beer garden listen to band and do some sniffing!! :)Quote:
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Sniffing? You do coke?
Lol... just kidding!
You made me laugh Emo, It's been a long time since I been able to do this a lot.Quote:
Originally Posted by emopunk7
The coke or the laughing?Quote:
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Lol... just kidding again!
Good one!Quote:
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