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  • Feb 19, 2010, 08:58 PM
    Kitkat22
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx View Post
    we spend the majority of the time talking, playing video games, cuddling, playing board games, hanging out with each other's families, and occasionally, sex


    Video games are great!
  • Feb 19, 2010, 09:01 PM
    ohsohappy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Kitkat22 View Post
    Video games are great!

    Yep, raspberrys, SOMETIMES I bite, but not hard, and that just makes him mad, so I don't like to do that. Plus, I'm not 14, or 4.
  • Feb 19, 2010, 09:05 PM
    Kitkat22
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ohsohappy View Post
    I'd do it. My boyfriend is 3 hours away too, but when he comes to visit, if he's a jerk, I blow a raspberry in his face. Or anywhere else I can get him, like the arm, or the back, or his cheek, or his tummy. Mostly I threaten to give him a black eye. Then he goes back to being nice!

    Ohso ;This is a stupid question, but I know a Raspberry is a fruit. The raspberry you throw at your boyfriend is that a real raspberry. (I'm a lot older than you so I am curious.) I hope I don't offend you!
  • Feb 19, 2010, 09:10 PM
    Cat1864
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Kitkat22 View Post
    Ohso ;This is a stupid question, but i know a Raspberry is a fruit. The raspberry you throw at your boyfriend is that a real raspberry. (I'm a lot older than you so I am curious.) I hope I don't offend you!

    Are you more familiar with "Bronx Cheer"?
  • Feb 19, 2010, 09:13 PM
    Kitkat22
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Cat1864 View Post
    Are you more familiar with "Bronx Cheer"?

    No. I did ask a stupid question didn't I?
  • Feb 19, 2010, 09:15 PM
    Cat1864
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Kitkat22 View Post
    No. I did ask a stupid question didn't I?

    No, you may know it by a different name. It's sticking your tongue out and blowing.
  • Feb 19, 2010, 09:17 PM
    Kitkat22
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Cat1864 View Post
    No, you may know it by a different name. It's sticking your tongue out and blowing.




    Thanks! I need to get out more.
  • Feb 19, 2010, 09:22 PM
    Kitkat22
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Cat1864 View Post
    No, you may know it by a different name. It's sticking your tongue out and blowing.



    Thanks! I appreciaate you.
  • Feb 19, 2010, 09:24 PM
    EmoPrincess

    Elmo taught me last year what a raspberry was, so it's okay! Haha
  • Feb 19, 2010, 09:28 PM
    Kitkat22
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx View Post
    elmo taught me last year what a raspberry was, so it's okay! haha



    Sometimes I feel like I'm in Elementery School again, but it's great learning some of the lingo. Raspberry that's a great idea! Thanks EMOP you ALWAYS make me feel better.:D:D:D
  • Feb 19, 2010, 09:33 PM
    ohsohappy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Kitkat22 View Post
    Ohso ;This is a stupid question, but i know a Raspberry is a fruit. The raspberry you throw at your boyfriend is that a real raspberry. (I'm a lot older than you so I am curious.) I hope I don't offend you!

    Not a stupid question. :)
    It's like blowing on the skin, with your cheeks pressed in and making an obnoxious noise. They can get a little slobbery. Haha!
  • Feb 19, 2010, 09:34 PM
    EmoPrincess

    No problem Kity!
  • Feb 19, 2010, 09:35 PM
    Kitkat22
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx View Post
    No problem Kity!


    Goodnight and remember, we're here for you.
  • Feb 19, 2010, 09:37 PM
    EmoPrincess

    Goodnight. And thanks
  • Feb 19, 2010, 09:38 PM
    Kitkat22
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ohsohappy View Post
    Not a stupid question. :)
    It's like blowing on the skin, with your cheeks pressed in and making an obnoxious noise. they can get a little slobbery. Haha!


    Good I was thinking the next time my husband aggravates me, I could throw some strawberries at him. A raspberry like you give your boyfriend sounds much better. Thanks
  • Feb 19, 2010, 09:38 PM
    ohsohappy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Kitkat22 View Post
    Good I was thinking the next time my husband aggravates me, I could throw some strawberries at him. A raspberry sounds a lot better. Thanks

    DO IT! :) That would be really funny.
  • Feb 19, 2010, 09:42 PM
    EmoPrincess

    Haha, I just take whatever he does that irritates me
  • Feb 19, 2010, 09:43 PM
    Kitkat22
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ohsohappy View Post
    DO IT! :) That would be really funny.

    Thanks and goodnight>
  • Feb 19, 2010, 09:43 PM
    kp2171
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Kitkat22 View Post
    Good I was thinking the next time my husband aggravates me, I could throw some strawberries at him. A raspberry like you give your boyfriend sounds much better. Thanks

    Hmm... I think a girl throwing strawberries at me would be both aggrivating and a bit charming all at once... which, of course, means id want to date her.

    I'm a bit broken like that.
  • Feb 19, 2010, 09:43 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ohsohappy View Post
    DO IT! :) That would be really funny.

    Ththththppppppppppffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffff ffffffftttttttttttttttttt!!
  • Feb 19, 2010, 09:47 PM
    EmoPrincess

    Sigh, a thing about abuse has turned into a spit fest and fruit salad! Haha
  • Feb 19, 2010, 09:58 PM
    kp2171
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx View Post
    sigh, a thing about abuse has turned into a spit fest and fruit salad! haha

    Sorry. I'm a late add to the thread. Ill try to behave.
  • Feb 19, 2010, 09:58 PM
    EmoPrincess
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by kp2171 View Post
    sorry. im a late add to the thread. ill try to behave.

    I was kidding. It's cheerful now
  • Feb 19, 2010, 10:04 PM
    kp2171
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx View Post
    i was kidding. It's cheerful now

    That's OK. I was lying about trying to behave. ;)
  • Feb 19, 2010, 10:10 PM
    EmoPrincess
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by kp2171 View Post
    thats ok. i was lying about trying to behave. ;)

    Haha. You know, lying is very very bad. Tsk tsk
  • Feb 19, 2010, 10:12 PM
    kp2171
    * deleted cause I am an idiot *
  • Feb 19, 2010, 10:13 PM
    kp2171
    * ditto that *
  • Feb 19, 2010, 10:17 PM
    EmoPrincess

    To MY room? Loly, ummm reminder, I'm 17
  • Feb 19, 2010, 10:20 PM
    kp2171
    Aw poo.

    I'm used to reading the adult sexuality threads and forget when off the naughty boards.

    Sorry 'bout that.
  • Feb 19, 2010, 10:22 PM
    EmoPrincess

    It's okay, I've gotten much worse. Haha.
  • Feb 19, 2010, 10:30 PM
    kp2171
    This is where I slowly back away and head for the back door exiit before I get my hands smacked.

    Sorry about the intrusion.

    You've seen nothing. Know nothing. You are feeling sleepy... sleepy...

    Wait... that's me. I r tired. Poo again.

    Outtie
  • Feb 19, 2010, 10:32 PM
    EmoPrincess
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by kp2171 View Post
    this is where i slowly back away and head for the back door exiit before i get my hands smacked.

    sorry bout the intrusion.

    youve seen nothing. know nothing. you are feeling sleepy... sleepy...

    wait... thats me. i r tired. poo again.

    outtie

    Haha, bye bye
  • Feb 19, 2010, 11:40 PM
    Kitkat22
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx View Post
    haha, bye bye





    This is so weird. I went to bed tried to sleep and something told me to get back online. God speaks to us that way. Now I need to tell you what I think of you. I think you are brave and strong and you have beaten such tremendous horror in your life. I can't imagine. I see you get stronger and stronger . And you will.

    In a year or two maybe less I see you standing in front of an audience of kids who are listening to you tell about your horrible experiences. There is a young person maybe more who are going through what you are right now . But when you are talking to these kids you are free of it, you have gotten out.

    There are kids who have lost their last shred of hope and are thinking of doing something drastic, but for the first time in a long time someone has shown them there is a way out. They are crying because they know they are no longer alone, that there is someone else who knows what they are enduring and that person is you. You'll know exactly what to say.

    You have a destiny, to help others who are hurting. You may be their last chance and I believe God works in mysterious ways . He takes something horrible like your abuse and rape and he gets victory from it.
    You think about that sweetie and how much we all love you. You are going to do great things. I feel better now. I just had to get out of bed and send this. LOL
  • Feb 20, 2010, 12:05 AM
    EmoPrincess
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Kitkat22 View Post
    This is so weird. I went to bed tried to sleep and something told me to get back online. God speaks to us that way. Now I need to tell you what I think of you. I think you are brave and strong and you have beaten such tremendous horror in your life. I can't imagine. I see you get stronger and stronger . And you will.

    In a year or two maybe less I see you standing in front of an audience of kids who are listening to you tell about your horrible experiences. There is a young person maybe more who are going through what you are right now . But when you are talking to these kids you are free of it, you have gotten out.

    There are kids who have lost their last shred of hope and are thinking of doing something drastic, but for the first time in a long time someone has shown them there is a way out. They are crying because they know they are no longer alone, that there is someone else who knows what they are enduring and that person is you. You'll know exactly what to say.

    You have a destiny, to help others who are hurting. You may be their last chance and I beleive God works in mysterious ways . He takes something horrible like your abuse and rape and he gets victory from it.
    You think about that sweetie and how much we all love you. You are going to do great things. I feel better now. I just had to get out of bed and send this. LOL

    Thanks Kity, and the divine do work in mysterious ways. It's people like you who give me hope.
  • Feb 20, 2010, 12:09 AM
    Kitkat22
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx View Post
    Thanks Kity, and the divine do work in mysterious ways. It's people like you who give me hope.

    I'm here. And I know God has great things in store for you.LOL
    Goodnight.
  • Feb 20, 2010, 12:10 AM
    EmoPrincess

    Good night Kity
    *hug*
  • Feb 20, 2010, 12:03 PM
    Kitkat22
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx View Post
    Good night Kity
    *hug*

    Hey little girl (that's what I call my youngest daughter). I had a peaceful night and we are headed up to see our daughter at Colllege. I'll talk to you if it isn't really late when we get home. I've got a feeling about you and you are going to do great things with your life. Remember what I said; you could be the one who helps someone else in trouble and who is going through the same thing. You find that strength and hold on. HUG.
  • Feb 20, 2010, 02:16 PM
    EmoPrincess

    Guys, I broke up with Cody...
  • Feb 20, 2010, 03:33 PM
    shazamataz

    Good for you Emop.
    I know it hurts now but looking from this perspective it's the best thing you could have done.

    We only know what you tell us, and from what you have told us you are better off being single.
  • Feb 20, 2010, 03:39 PM
    Cat1864
    I think that is the best thing for you right now. I know it isn't going to be easy, but remember that you have a great support system right here.

    {{{{Emop}}}}

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