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Originally Posted by Steve1010

ahh i dont know? im sorry?

but it could be to late by then.

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Why would you say you are sorry? You last message to her was "I love you"... don't be sorry for anything...

SHE is the one who should be sorry...

I'm not sure what is going on.. I'm scared she won't say anything to me tomorrow.. or she will FLIP when I answer that night

I don't know why this whole night, all those texts I didn't answer.. she never said I LOVE U, or sorry

She hasn't said anything in 15 minutes, last text was

Wow thought u were different. Clearly not

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Originally Posted by Steve1010

im not sure what is going on.. im scared she wont say anything to me tommorrow.. or she will FLIP when i answer tht night

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Let's talk about Tues night when you talk with her.

You will NOT apologize and you will talk in short answers, like Yes and No. If she gets weird again and acts like tonight, hang up or stop texting. Just say Good Night.

Let her do what she wants to do..

All you need to do is the right thing...

She has gone off the handle, said all these things to you, treated you badly, and you didn't deserve it.

Don't contact her, that's all... if she talks to you nicely tomorrow, and asks why you didn't talk to her, say you aren't going to be spoken to badly anymore, that you are standing up for yourself and that she needs to sort herself out, because you meant everything you said to her, and you love her, but if she wants to have a future with you, she needs to sort herself out properly

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Originally Posted by Steve1010

idk why this whole night, all those texts i didnt answer.. she never said I LOVE U, or sorry

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Ah, interesting. Glad you noticed that without me having to point it out.

Thanks a lot guys, I work from 7am-330 I'm sure I will have tons of texts. So I don't know if I say anything if she says sorry or wait till the night, I don't know if I can wait till the night..

Why do you think she's not talking anymore?

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

Ah, interesting. Glad you noticed that without me having to point it out.

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Why wouldn't she though? Is she trying to see if I crack so she has the power again? Will she surrender to me tomorrow?

You must be strong and not give into the urge to talk to her.

Be a man, be strong and don't let her push you around.

She is probably tired of saying all this hurtful stuff, and hopefully she is going to stop and think now...

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Originally Posted by Steve1010

thanks a lot guys, i work from 7am-330 im sure i will have tons of texts. so idk if i say anything if she says sorry or wait till the night, idk if i can wait till the night..

why do u think shes not talking anymore?

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She's probably exhausted. You haven't heard the end of her. Don't give in before 9 p.m.

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why wouldnt she tho? is she trying to see if i crack so she has the power again? will she surrender to me tommorrow?

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Its not really about who has the power. It has to be balanced, but if she treats you badly and stuff and you still come after her, you are like a love sick puppy and she knows she has control over you because she has your heart.

You need to show her that yes you love her, but she can't treat you like this anymore. You will only respond to her love and respect.

What if she's like " why didnt u tell me that last night then when i was trying to talk to u!!"

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why wouldnt she tho? is she trying to see if i crack so she has the power again? will she surrender to me tommorrow?

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She won't change her ways by tomorrow. You still have work ahead of you.

If she says sorry before 9pm. I don't know how I can wait to talk to her

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what if shes like " why didnt u tell me that last night then when i was trying to talk to u!!"

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"Wud u have lissened?"

O god what else do I have to do?

Tell her you were not going to talk to her when she is not respecting you.

If she wants love, she has to respect you as a man, and as a person.

When she is calling you names and saying bad stuff, that's not respectful and therefore you will not respond.

Basically, if she wants you, she has to treat you right.

If she doesn't realize this, if she doesn't treat you right, then you shouldn't be with her

God its still bothering me when she said thought u were different. Clearly not

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Originally Posted by Steve1010

if she says sorry before 9pm. idk how i can wait to talk to her

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You really enjoy being a puppet, don't you.

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Originally Posted by Steve1010

god its still bothering me when she said thought u were different. clearly not

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And I'm lmao... it's sooooooooooo lame!!

So what do I expect tomorrow? Like what do u think she will say?

No.. I just don't want to lose her by not talking to her

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so what do i expect tommorrow? like what do u think she will say?

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Are you in the Central Time Zone?

do u think she is saying IM DONE, to get me to answer? Lol she said she was done like 3 hours ago?> then randomly texted me saying " hey boy" like >?

Yes I am, I have to get up at 630

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do u think she is saying IM DONE, to get me to answer?? lol she said she was done like 3 hours ago?> then randomly texted me saying " hey boy" like >?

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Like my grandfather would say, she is full of applesauce.

So no matter how long it takes for me to answer do u think she truly needs me and wants to be w me? And its driving her crazy I'm not answering

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so no matter how long it takes for me to answer do u think she truly needs me and wants to be w me? and its driving her crazy im not answering

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Yes to all questions. And if you screw this up, you will lose her.

How can I screw up?

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so no matter how long it takes for me to answer do u think she truly needs me and wants to be w me? and its driving her crazy im not answering

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Its driving you crazy not answering, and its driving her crazy now getting a reply. Lol!

If she really loves you and needs you, you will know from what you are doing now.

She needs to sort herself out...

After 9 tomorrow night, whatever she says, listen (or read) and don't answer right away. Think about it. Is she being respectful to you or not. Is she being loving or not. Answer nicely if she is, and, if she isn't, tell her you won't reply until she is respectful and loving.

But what does it matter answering at noon compared to 9 at night?

Then give very simple and short answers.

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but what does it matter answering at noon compared to 9 at night?

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Time... she needs time... and so do you...

If I answer short answers. She will be like WHY Didn't U ANSWER LAST NIGHT WHY! OMG WHY UR SUCH A JERK

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Originally Posted by Steve1010

if i answer short answers. she will be like WHY DIDNT U ANSWER LAST NIGHT WHY! OMG WHY UR SUCH A JERK

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Then say Goodbye and stop communication.

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

Then say Goodbye and stop communication.

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Exactly... if she doesn't respect you and treat you well, then you don't to her... she has to learn...

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Originally Posted by BlackVY

Exactly... if she doesn't respect you and treat you well, then you don't to her... she has to learn...

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No extra words, no apologies, no explanations, no blubbering -- just Goodbye.

OK guys, I have to go to bed now.. thank you all SO much for your help. I will do what you said and be back tomorrow so check the thread.. thanks so much I really mean that thank u