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  • Aug 13, 2010, 09:12 AM
    jmw0713

    Here is a Warning:

    You are getting an emotional boost from the fact that she hasn't found anyone yet. This is now feeding a sense of false hope that she will possibly get back together with you. You will ride this emotional high until you hear news about her that you don't want to know about. It is at that point where you will crash hard and really start to follow the advice we have given you.

    I hope for your sake that never happens, because it sucks...
  • Aug 13, 2010, 10:48 AM
    Kitkat22

    She will find someone eventually and you will be back to square one. It will happen.

    Take the advice you have been given here and leave her alone.
  • Aug 13, 2010, 12:02 PM
    Ther4peuticH3at

    Okay, I need you guys to just trust me on this one. I've left out some details in my previous post, so I can't blame you for drawing some of your conclusions, but for now you'll just have to cut me some slack.

    I'd type it all out (details and the like), but I feel like it'd be a lot of typing and a lot of explaining and re-explaining and just a nightmare of trying to articulate an accurate portrait of my mindset and emotions. But the short version is that I'm just in a really good place. I feel like I'm exactly where the universe wants me to be. I'm not on a high, there's no emotional boost, only closure. I'm really balanced right now. It just feels like there was a chapter in my life that is now over. I can take it for what it was, the good, the bad, and everything in between, I can take it and put it (leave it) behind me.
  • Aug 16, 2010, 07:59 AM
    jmw0713

    I'm glad you feel that way. Just be careful. Many times painful emotions will rear their ugly head when you least expect it.

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