Emop
Okay this may be harsh also but sometimes you got to be cruel to be kind as they say.
You know it's pretty obvious to most of us that your whole lifestyle is unstable , that is that you flitter between relationships like their hot meals , once ones finished you start looking for another one. That's not healthy and considering your past its going to stay a never ending cycle unless YOU really want to do something about it.
End it with this Pat fellow as all he's after is Sex , so is Werewolf boy :rolleyes: and any other person you seem to get close to.
Then from now on DO NOT go out with anybody who isn't willing to be with you without the Sex , that way yo may actually find someone who likes you for just YOU and not your Hoo Hoo.
Do you really want the reputation of being easy , because that's what's happening and only you can fix it by either being single and happy for a while , or if you are going to have a partner choose one that doesn't need anything more than friendship at the beginning.
BTW... there is no such thing as a werewolf unless you go to the movies , so listen to what everyone else has told you about that not only here but over on the other threads.
