Im glad you're better-stay on the path and stay NC-ie no reaching out.

Sometimes I hate you guys... but I know your right dammit...

OH don't hate us fear. Just hearing the truth sucks. Knowing your doing better do you want to feel the pain again? No you don't.

One day soon you'll be able to use your experience to help others as best you can-thats a great thing.

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by fearxfear

i still think of her from time to time and I wonder if she ever thinks of me.(...) you tell them to not contact us and pretty much the ball is in our court to reach back out to them? Ugh i can't wait till these holidays past!!

---

I've been thinking along the same lines. The thing is, the ball is in our court when it comes to friendship. Important distinction. You're better off keeping NC and not worrying about whether the ex thinks about you or not.

From time to time I wonder if I should reach out the ex too. However, do I really want to ruin all my progress? Not really. When you can truly say to yourself, I truly only want to be friends and nothing more. That is the time you can reach out to her. Looking for anything more than just friendship will set you up for another fall and that's something you really want to avoid. Trust me.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...lk-303157.html

So what do you think is the way forward because boga stress di33 ade have my fair share paa, my man de seriously de worry my life wey I don't want to tell my old folks about it want to handle myself

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...lk-303157.html