Ask Me Help Desk - I'm Dating a man for 6 months now He used to be heroin addict.

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Originally Posted by VAN5090

I Havent been talking to him I changed my number but I've had daily contact with his mother and he hasent changed hes actually gotten worse so Im now trying to leave . I changed my phone number and he contacted me on my myspace with threats that if I dont contact him back I will regret it , I highly regret getting involved in this relationship It sucks.

Make a copy of that my space message and bring it to the police station when you go there to get an order of protection.

Or the courthouse. Do it. It may be only a piece of paper but when he is served it he is forbidden to contact you in any way.

That includes threats on the phone or whatever.He will go to jail if he does that .I think your best bet is to go to a shelter. They will help you,they know everything you need to do to protect yourself.

You need to do that ASAP.

Please use this site to get help in your area ,its free and they know what they are doing they can also help the Mom.

The resource is there ,all you have to do is accept it!

National Domestic Violence Hotline

You will think about the babies? Wow that's crazy. You should have never gotten your kids involved with this in the first place. You just need to move on for the sake of your children.

I once had a crazy boyfriend who threatened me and I had to move away (2 states) before I felt safe. He not only stalked me but one night ran out in front of my car and I was so startled I slammed on the brakes and he jumped in my car before I knew what was going on. It was terrifying. I had him locked up for 3 months after that (he couldn't make bail and I had all the threats he sent me in letters [before the internet]) but for years, YEARS, he told people who knew me that if he found me he would kill me. I didn't come back for 20 years.

These psychopaths do harm every single day. Report everything to the police and get away as far as you can. Read this on staying safe when trying flee an abuser here.

STAY SAFE!

I get the link but artlady does not so it's here: http://www.ndvh.org/get-help/safety-planning/

If the planning page doesn't work just go to www.ndvh.org for lots of information

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Originally Posted by susangpyp

I once had a crazy boyfriend who threatened me and I had to move away (2 states) before I felt safe. He not only stalked me but one night ran out in front of my car and I was so startled I slammed on the brakes and he jumped in my car before I knew what was going on. It was terrifying. I had him locked up for 3 months after that (he couldn't make bail and I had all the threats he sent me in letters [before the internet]) but for years, YEARS, he told people who knew me that if he found me he would kill me. I didn't come back for 20 years.

These psychopaths do harm every single day. Report everything to the police and get away as far as you can. Read this on staying safe when trying flee an abuser here.

STAY SAFE!

Now I got it
.Same site I always recommend.
She is on the right road ,she needs to understand there is a good life out there.

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Originally Posted by artlady

Now I got it
.Same site I always recommend.
She is on the right road ,she needs to understand there is a good life out there.

Yes there is. The first chapter of my book is "My Story" in which I talk about my journey from DV to health and happiness. I also donate the book to DV organizations to spread the word that it IS possible!!