Originally Posted by
AmExp
As for what I wear...well. During the holidays he asked me to come over and meet his family who were in town. ( Sisters, their kids and husbands, his mom and dad, plus his two children)...whew. Earlier that day he had met my because I had returned from my holiday trip ( their encounter was pleasant and unplanned). Anyway, when I was dressing for the visit I bent over. He was like you can't wear those pants. They show your underwear. I just told him I can change the cut of the underwear and that was that. He felt the need to remind me the whole way there to make sure they don't show. Then one night I got all dolled up wearing a new stripped dress that my cousin and his partner helped me accessorize. My bf told me I looked stunning and really pretty. We took some pictures and I didn't like how they turned out. I felt I looked chunky (nothing is wrong with being chunky but that dress did NOT make me look that way in person). He later told me yeah, stripes look terrible on me and that I should not wear them again and to turn that outfit. That really hurt my feelings because HE was the one praising how nice I looked. He claimed he didn't want to tell me because I was trying to look nice. He has said things like I look better naked and that his ex-gf was the same way ( who he compares me to A LOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!) He says I remind him of her in many ways, but that she was as dumb as a box or rocks and couldn't handle that.