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  • Jun 30, 2007, 08:28 AM
    fatchicken
    You are still single because you didn't find the right guy yet.When you see a guy your brain will know that guy, just take a vacation and you will find that guy maybe.Or take a love match on the internet like the old fashion way.And if when you first see this guy you will get a excited feeling in your stomach.Ok
  • Jun 30, 2007, 09:18 AM
    talaniman
    The bottom line is to always be yourself, and be happy with who you, are and sooner or later, some one will want to share it with you. Try to have a little fun along the way though.
  • Jul 2, 2007, 06:32 AM
    woh337
    I know where are you coming from. I personally think that you won't actually meet those right ones until you get out and spend time in the real world long enough. A more established man will be there for you eventually. I think you have all the qualifications to meet a wonderful and successful man!
    Good luck nicespringgirl!:)
  • Jul 2, 2007, 10:14 AM
    pandacooda
    I am Asian-American also and am currently in college for my nursing degree. Many men do want a woman such as yourself but are intimidated to appoach. My boyfriend felt the same way when he first saw me. But he decided to take a chance. When the time is right, there will be a man with enough courage to approach and talk to you. If he is the right one for you, there may be a blooming relationship. If not, try not to be so discouraged. The problem may not be you at all, it may be the mans. Unfortunately, not all men want a successful and beautiful woman. It sometimes plays off their egos in a negative way and if she is beautiful, they worry about other men coming on to their women. Which ends up offering an opportunities to cheat. Some men don't like that (possibly due to self-esteem issues). So hang in there. The right man will come.
  • Jul 2, 2007, 10:19 AM
    woh337
    Yep, they do worry about other men coming on to their women! It's intimidating!
    And I think she is problly an independent lady too, so she problly doesn't really need a man to help her in any way. So nicespringgril, just hang in there, the right one will come to you envantually!:)
  • Jul 2, 2007, 06:12 PM
    zooropa1985
    Hey everybody, time for this chick to get Zooped up!!

    Here's the deal, you could be the most beautiful girl in the world, be the smartest girl in the world but if your boring (not saying you are) then all that will mean jack when it comes to dating.

    Now lets face facts, as much as these dudes seemed to like you the truth is they were'nt willing to go on a second date with you, have you ever thought of asking why?

    You say you are an independent lady but are you too independent? Sometimes that can come across as arrogance and men will pick up on that, maybe you don't mean to send that vibe but its out there none the less.

    I think you need to step back for a second and realise that you are young and you only live once, why not make the most of it, enjoy life for a while, go with the flow and see what happens. Loosen up a bit and the guys will a come a knocking to get you rockin!!
  • Jul 2, 2007, 07:33 PM
    kristynn
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by zooropa1985
    hey everybody, time for this chick to get Zooped up!!!!

    Zooped up? :D
  • Jul 3, 2007, 05:16 AM
    woh337
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by zooropa1985
    hey everybody, time for this chick to get Zooped up!!!!

    heres the deal, you could be the most beautiful girl in the world, be the smartest girl in the world but if your boring (not sayin you are) then all that will mean jack when it comes to dating.

    Now lets face facts, as much as these dudes seemed to like you the truth is they were'nt willing to go on a second date with you, have you ever thought of asking why?

    You say you are an independant lady but are you too independant? sometimes that can come across as arrogance and men will pick up on that, maybe you dont mean to send that vibe but its out there none the less.

    I think you need to step back for a second and realise that you are young and you only live once, why not make the most of it, enjoy life for a while, go with the flow and see what happens. Loosen up a bit and the guys will a come a knockin to get you rockin!!!!

    Hi Hun~How was last night?;) did I get u zooped up?:p
  • Jul 3, 2007, 06:46 AM
    SameOldSituation
    You said you're Asian. Maybe people find you tricky. Like that boy in the Goonies. He was always setting booby traps.
  • Jul 3, 2007, 07:05 AM
    woh337
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by SameOldSituation
    You said you're Asian. Maybe people find you tricky. Like that boy in the Goonies. He was always setting booby traps.

    Lol, u don't like asians?? :rolleyes:
  • Jul 3, 2007, 07:10 AM
    kristynn
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by SameOldSituation
    You said you're Asian. Maybe people find you tricky. Like that boy in the Goonies. He was always setting booby traps.

    What about Asians? What's the thing?
  • Jul 3, 2007, 07:12 AM
    woh337
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by kristynn
    What about Asians? What's the thing?

    Hi, you are back, myfriend!:D
  • Jul 3, 2007, 07:13 AM
    kristynn
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by woh337
    hi, u r back, myfriend!:D

    Lol hi, back just for a little while :D
  • Jul 3, 2007, 07:14 AM
    woh337
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by kristynn
    lol hi, back just for a little while :D

    Yea? U think that dude Sameoldsituation doesn't like asians? I think he problly has problems with asians,lol:D
  • Jul 3, 2007, 07:16 AM
    kristynn
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by woh337
    yea? u think that dude Sameoldsituation doesn't like asians? I think he problly has problems with asians,lol:D

    His choice... but if he doesn't, he should at least have a good reason. :confused: :rolleyes:
  • Jul 3, 2007, 07:19 AM
    woh337
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by kristynn
    His choice... but if he doesn't, he should at least have a good reason. :confused: :rolleyes:

    Anyway, I don't think this guy is my type!:p what do u think? :rolleyes:
  • Jul 3, 2007, 07:28 AM
    kristynn
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by woh337
    Anyway, I don't think this guy is my type!:p what do u think??:rolleyes:

    Humm.. No clue. :rolleyes: Why are you asking?

    I bet it's cause huno's taken? :D
  • Jul 3, 2007, 07:31 AM
    woh337
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by kristynn
    humm.. No clue. :rolleyes: Why are you asking?

    I bet it's cause huno's taken?! :D

    Aw... u r putting salt on my cut,, :( but I still have zoopara, where he is at now?? :confused:
    But I tell what-sameoldsituantion souns like a jerk, beaware, my friend!:D
  • Jul 6, 2007, 05:21 PM
    nicespringgirl
    I am glad you realize that too,LOL.
  • Jul 6, 2007, 05:30 PM
    kristynn
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by woh337
    aw...u r putting salt on my cut,,,:( but i still have zoopara, where he is at now???:confused:
    but i tell what-sameoldsituantion souns like a jerk, beaware, my friend!:D

    :D Funny you

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