Careful, you broke NC.

But I know you felt you had to... Hope you got closure... My guess is she'll contact you back... And will leave you annoyed... But ride it out.

I needed the closure in order to move on... it's over for us just wanted her to know that.

There will be no closeurte while you are in contact. You are thinking if I tell her its totally over maybe she will think and come back... No need to think like this, You may be telling yourself it is over but deep down you are holding onto some hope. That is fine just go complete NC and do not respond to any messages. NIL none at all...

That will show her you are gone.. If my some chance she decides to send you a message she would like to try again this is where you call the shots until then Say absolutely nothing...

Do not respond to any texts iot has got you know where so far and all it is doing is letting her know your still there for her...

You did the right thing in stating your position, and it shows growth that your not left confused, and questioning yourself. You've come a long way in a short time. Congrats are in order.

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Originally Posted by talaniman

You did the right thing in stating your position, and it shows growth that your not left confused, and questioning yourself. You've come a long way in a short time. Congrats are in order.

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Tal I don't really think he stated hisposition he just told her a line in the hope that she will believe it and may come back. Fly guy is trying an still wants her back, she is tryingto give him hope and if he really wants to state his position he would just not answer at all the will let her know exactly what his position is now...

Sorry I don't see that in any of his recent posts. At this point, he doesn't have to stay with no contact, as he is emotonally capable to tell her how he feels and move on, and the biggest clue is the lack of confusion on his part after the contact. He is on a very good path.

I know exactly what she is trying to do with her little texts all she wants is to string me along but I am not going to be a fool anymore. I know I broke no contact but no contact is used to clear your mind from that person and help you move on and I can say that I have moved on that is why I broke no contact. I know what she is trying to do and that's fine but I have no hope for us and don't want any. I have hope in the future that someone even better then her is out there and I am having a blast everyday without her.

There is a new interest in my life and I am seeing where that will go kind of a hard spot because the new interest is on of my close friends but she seems to be looking for more then that with me. Don't think I am ready for that yet and she knows but the game is a blast!

It's OK to break NC if it's for a specific reason - like closure...