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  • Aug 15, 2009, 07:11 PM
    artlady
    Hes a wrapper ,he wraps gifts!
    I meant RAPPER >down :)
    I have less pain today and it's a good thing!
  • Aug 15, 2009, 07:16 PM
    N0help4u
    How did it go?

    Every attraction does not have to end in copulation.
    We already got over population
    Yet without hesitation
    Your going to create another welafare situation
    Over your infatuation


    **I Lust for Your Bust
    **BY: Generation Hoosurdaddy
  • Aug 15, 2009, 07:20 PM
    artlady
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by N0help4u View Post
    How did it go?

    Everry attraction does not have to end in copulation.
    We already got over population
    yet without hesitation
    your going to create another welafare situation
    over your infatuation

    Can't love you (rep) but I do and that's GOOD
    Im crackin up ! I love it! Ha ha ha :p
  • Aug 15, 2009, 07:24 PM
    mudweiser

    Women look too.

    There's not one guy out there that doesn't look- gay or straight. They may hide it well but I'm sure they all look at an attractive girl [or man] a time or two.

    I'd like to think of it this way. Us women, we may not ogle at men as much as men ogle at females, however we do ogle at things such as; shoes, coats, jewelery--- you get the picture.
    We may not be able to afford it but we sure do love to window shop ;)


    Just my opinion...


    Sarah
  • Aug 15, 2009, 07:27 PM
    N0help4u

    mudweiser agrees: Damn. I really needed a wrapper this Christmas.

    'N here I thought she meant a BUBBLE GUM Wrapper!
  • Aug 15, 2009, 07:40 PM
    artlady
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by N0help4u View Post
    mudweiser agrees: Damn. I really needed a wrapper this Christmas.

    'N here I thought she meant a BUBBLE GUM Wrapper!

    I know ,My son would disown me by calling him a Wrapper.
    I can't stop laughing. Thanks!
  • Aug 15, 2009, 07:42 PM
    artlady

    I have tears you guys :) Thanks!
  • Aug 16, 2009, 07:28 AM
    aryan2008
    Deleted for chat/text

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...lk-303157.html
  • Aug 16, 2009, 07:31 AM
    N0help4u
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by aryan2008 View Post
    if next time he do so,adore other men before him.and c how he reacts?if he is furious,tell him how u feel when he do d same.
    If he not furious ,he is seriously lukng for smeone else

    I wouldn't say that his lack of being furious shows anything in particular.
    It could mean anything if he doesn't get upset about it. It could mean simply that he is secure in the relationship or a number of other things
  • Aug 16, 2009, 09:31 AM
    mudweiser
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by aryan2008 View Post
    if next time he do so,adore other men before him.and c how he reacts?if he is furious,tell him how u feel when he do d same.
    If he not furious ,he is seriously lukng for smeone else

    Are you in a relationship? Have you ever been in a relationship?

    This type of behavior will sour a relationship and could also terminate it.

    This is awful advice. Trying to "get back" or even it out with your partner is damaging.

    In a relationship you should be able to communicate with your partner- if you can't do that then you shouldn't be in the relationship at all.

    Communicate, don't try silly little mind games.


    Sarah
  • Aug 16, 2009, 03:32 PM
    N0help4u

    Noboby is judging you.

    You realize your posts were deleted for your not using proper English?
  • Aug 16, 2009, 04:52 PM
    Romefalls19

    Tit for tat will not work in a relationship. There was a study recently done, expressing this, instead of your ideology working in your favor as you presume it would, it actually makes for a more hostile environment.
  • Aug 16, 2009, 05:23 PM
    liz28

    I am a female and I can say I look at others guys. I am only human and after all I do have eyes. I look but don't touch.
  • Aug 16, 2009, 05:43 PM
    N0help4u
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    I don't *LOOK* but I did run across this in Yahoo images for all you girls that want equal rights.

    I decided to make him my AMHD genie.
  • Aug 17, 2009, 12:47 AM
    Starry nights
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by N0help4u View Post
    I don't *LOOK* but I did run across this in yahoo images for all you girls that want equal rights.

    I decided to make him my AMHD genie.

    No but seriously,"men's roving eyes" actually is an issue that keeps cropping up in many a relationship and there was a scenario I know of where the woman just couldn't deal with it and she broke up with her long-time boyfriend.

    Just as a matter of curiosity,is there actually any solution?Would I be taking it too far when I say that roving eyes is linked with roving minds,loss of interest,abnormal sexual fantasising etc etc? How serious can it become from a man's perspective?Can it lead him to stray enough to jeopardise his relationship?
  • Aug 17, 2009, 05:29 AM
    talaniman

    Its like any other behavior in human kind. If it crosses the line of good behavior, then something has to be done about it.
  • Aug 17, 2009, 05:30 AM
    LJDK

    I believe roving eyes are indeed a roving mind. Not good.
  • Aug 17, 2009, 05:55 AM
    talaniman

    What about a roving mind? I think most humans have a capacity for lust. Its what they do about it, is that's right, or wrong.
  • Aug 17, 2009, 12:27 PM
    jmw0713

    Women do the same thing! I've had both single and attached women eye me up when I'm out on the town.

    Don't act like you all are saints! :p

    OK, if thoughts are bad, then I guess every dream/fantasy we have about sexy Hollywood actors/actresses dooms us to fail in a relationship... no! Thoughts are one thing, it's when they manifest into actions that determine whether they are right and wrong.
  • Aug 17, 2009, 01:19 PM
    kctiger

    Difference between sanity and insanity is the controlling of actions according to one's thoughts. I am sure most of the population is insane according to their thoughts, but it is the actions that determine how they are perceived.

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