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  • Mar 22, 2010, 05:05 PM
    Kevin86

    Update: I'm feeling really good and strong. I mean sometimes, I realize how much she lied to me, and that makes me a little bit angry. But besides that I'm totally fine.

    I already dated someone, and have another date planned for Friday.

    Good luck everyone.
  • Mar 22, 2010, 05:17 PM
    vanheart

    Good to hear. Its takes time.

    Go on as many dates as you can, but make sure your heal from this one first before you jump into a relationship right away.

    That's not fair to another person & to you, as well.
  • Mar 22, 2010, 11:38 PM
    amicon

    Good to know you're feeling better-just don't jump into a rebound relationship.

    Heal first and that takes time.
  • Apr 8, 2010, 04:03 PM
    Kevin86

    Man the last couple days I miss my ex so much... She did so many things bad, and still I have the feeling of wanting to see her, or hear her voice.

    Hard times...
  • Apr 8, 2010, 04:07 PM
    vanheart

    It takes time. Ups & downs.

    Read you last post:

    "Update: I'm feeling really good and strong. I mean sometimes, I realize how much she lied to me, and that makes me a little bit angry. But besides that I'm totally fine."
  • May 14, 2010, 01:13 PM
    Kevin86

    The last two weeks I feel weaker than ever. I miss my ex a lot, I dream and think about her all the time.

    I spent a weekend with another girl, but I couldn't enjoy at all since I can't stop thinking about my ex.

    I sent her an email, and I got a text from her mom that she doesn't want to open any form of communication.

    I feel like the only way to get over her is to either fall in love with another girl, so I realize that there are more girls around, or I really have to accept that she is gone for good, but that's easier said then done.

    I feel like crap, and it sucks to feel like this.
  • May 14, 2010, 02:28 PM
    talaniman

    Quote:

    I feel like the only way to get over her is to either fall in love with another girl, so I realize that there are more girls around, or I really have to accept that she is gone for good, but that's easier said then done.
    Accept it as it may be hard, but works in time.

    Replacing her with another hot body only makes it worse. It will pass if you let it, so stop holding on.

    Before you tell us how hard it is, we already know that, but we do it any way.

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