Tal and amicon are right. Training is really important to get over her. As hard as it is, it's her life and she makes her own mistakes now and you need to build your life so that you won't think about her no more.

Of course from time to time, I still think what stupid mistakes must be making now ( I don't think her liver is functioning right now with all the alcohol she's taking ), but it's her life and I have nothing to do with it. As far as it concerns me she could die and I wouldn't care.

I just want to say I really appreicate your input on this thank you amicon, tal, and paxe as well for the comments. It keeps me grounded and level headed.

paxe I keep telling myself that I actively need to work on getting her out of my head and occupying my time wisely.. I have set up some goals already, but in the end I'm mostly getting that time is a huge factor in this..

You mean you don't have too much time? I feel for you buddy. I'm studying full time as an electrical engineer... it's hell. I do nothing else than studying.

What you need to do is to train and exercise at least 1 intense hour everyday. It will help you focus on work or studying. Start eating well also. If you take care of your body and set physical goals, the healing will be much faster, trust me.

Keep posting how you are improving also.

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I just want to say I really appreicate your input on this thank you amicon, tal, and paxe as well for the comments. it keeps me grounded and level headed.

paxe i keep telling myself that i actively need to work on getting her out of my head and occupying my time wisely.. i have set up some goals already, but in the end im mostly getting that time is a huge factor in this..

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Your right, its all about time... so it requires a lot of patience also.

Yeah patience is soemthing I really want to work on as well as a person, working out, studying, and eating well is what I will continue to do..

You know its funny looking back on this entire thread of mine how fast time went by and I have made some good improvement but still not as much as I would have liked because I had contact here and there.. really nc is the best thing to stick with..

At this moment I do feel a bit of an idiot for basically allowing myself to get treated this way in being manipulated and falling for some of the things that were said to me and letting this happen..

We all make mistakes and learn from it. The idea is not to make them again. Keep improving :D !