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  • May 25, 2009, 08:25 PM
    Steve1010
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    She can't stay away from you, sounds like.

    Has she been texting you during the past hour?
    No she hasn't said anything to me
  • May 25, 2009, 08:27 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Steve1010 View Post
    no she hasnt said anything to me
    Ok, good. You don't text her either, or phone or PM or meet with her.

    Will you see her Tues?
  • May 25, 2009, 08:27 PM
    dudevill

    Ok, I missed most of what you said after I signed off earlier, but from what I've read, this girl sounds like bad news. I know girls like this, and I'm dealing with a pretty harsh break up right now, and I know it sucks, but I'm going to give you the same advice I was given and it's really helping.
    Just forget about her, don't talk to her, approach her, contact her, etc.. Just live your own life, if she ever contacts you, be polite and short and sweet, be the better person and she will know she has nothing to play off anymore. She's toying with your feelings because she knows she can.
    If you ever want to feel better you need to get away from this girl and move on. I have no idea why you suddenly chose to break things off with her, as posted earlier, because it's not enough to just say it, if you really want to break it off with her now, you have to really break it off. Get away with her, hang out with friends, stay busy, and try not to think about her.
    Right now it seems like she's found a nice spot in your head where she can pull the strings and I can honestly say that from what I've read she doesn't care about you at all.
    Have some spine and stand up to her.
    The biggest frustration for her will be thinking that you don't care anymore and then she will stop manipulating you, but seriously. I highly doubt there's anything there, nor is there a good chance that you guys will get together and be happy.
  • May 25, 2009, 08:28 PM
    Steve1010
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Ok, good. You don't text her either, or phone or PM or meet with her.

    Will you see her Tues?
    No I won't be able to see her.. how do I show that I'm the one like she said last week? I don't know why she would do this if I was the one.. say she doesn't want me right now and doesn't want to talk to me and I'm annoying
  • May 25, 2009, 08:29 PM
    Steve1010

    She just texted me and said hey boy! What to do!
  • May 25, 2009, 08:30 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Steve1010 View Post
    no i wont be able to see her.. how do i show that im the one like she said last week? idk why she would do this if i was the one.. say she doesnt want me right now and doesnt wanna talk to me and im annoying
    Stop working yourself up into a panic. Take some long, slow breaths. Relax.
  • May 25, 2009, 08:32 PM
    Steve1010
    She said do u want to talk or no?
  • May 25, 2009, 08:32 PM
    Wondergirl

    Don't answer.
  • May 25, 2009, 08:33 PM
    Steve1010

    Omg I want to so bad.. please help
  • May 25, 2009, 08:34 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Steve1010 View Post
    omg i want to so bad.. please help
    Nope. 24 hours you said to me, you agreed.
  • May 25, 2009, 08:36 PM
    Steve1010

    But what if she wants to work it out? Ahhh 24 hours what will it accomplish help
  • May 25, 2009, 08:37 PM
    Steve1010

    She said helllllllooo??
  • May 25, 2009, 08:37 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Steve1010 View Post
    but what if she wants to work it out? ahhh 24 hours what will it accomplish help
    It's not time to work it out yet. If you answer, you will buy into more of her drama and I am history.
  • May 25, 2009, 08:38 PM
    Steve1010

    Ahh god, I want to answer so bad.. what will she think if I don't answer? She knows I always do and I never go to bed at this hour
  • May 25, 2009, 08:39 PM
    talaniman
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Steve1010 https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/amhd_i...s/viewpost.gif
    but what if she wants to work it out? ahhh 24 hours what will it accomplish help
    It may keep you from acting like an immature lovesick idiot, who has no dignity or self respect!

    It may give you time to get under control, and not do something really stupid.
  • May 25, 2009, 08:39 PM
    Steve1010
    She just said whatever then.. F it
  • May 25, 2009, 08:40 PM
    Steve1010
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    It may keep you from acting like an immature lovesick idiot, who has no dignity or self respect!!

    It may give you time to get under control, and not do something really stupid.
    What do u mean? I didn't answer and by me not doing so she said whatver F it
  • May 25, 2009, 08:40 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Steve1010 View Post
    ahh god, i want to answer so bad.. what will she think if i dont answer? she knows i always do and i never go to bed at this hour
    Do you want to take control, or do you want to always do her dance? If you answer, you are back to doing her dance. That will be the end of the plan to improve your relationship with her.
  • May 25, 2009, 08:41 PM
    Steve1010

    But she just said F it. Because I didn't answer and she knows I'm here looking at what she said
  • May 25, 2009, 08:42 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Steve1010 View Post
    but she just said F it. because i didnt answer and she knows im here looking at what she said
    Be patient. You could be dead for all she knows.

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