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Originally Posted by myuz

Also if there was someone else why would she be texting me sometimes. Tell me she loves me wants to get back together possibly. And she went for lunch with me which was her idea. Then for a walk. Like I see where you guys are coming from but why would she be doing these things if she has another guy already. Man im so confused I just dont know what to do

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Because she's selfish and wants you and the other guy.

My ex cheated on her new guy(with me),two weeks into the relationship with him.

While she was telling me there was no one else.

So we hooked up,in person it was like "I don't know if I love you now,but I really did"

I was like... this is very weird... who says that... and does these things... if they don't have feelings...

I put the puzzle together

sure enough on myspace 'in a relationship'

= huge confrontation.. lol.

If she has a social network site... check it.

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you know what I mean guys... But you she is keeping me hooked... But likewise to her if some better girl came along and wanted to be with me then my ex might get burned too...

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No she wouldn't, but you would be even more confused. Big difference between love and sex. Or used for sex.

If she had other friends with benefits, you would never know.

Well here's a big update... we have been back together about two months now and things are going really great for us... The trip together was awesome and really helped us to see that we really want to be together. We bpth agreed that the time apart was really good for us. Her and I are taking a trip to Cuba this winter and I even have plans of asking her to marry me which she hasn't hid at all that she would like.. We are going to get a condo together soon when she is done school. Her and I are both very very happy together. I get at least a few texts from her daily saying how happy she is we are back together and that she made the right choice in giving us another shot.. Sex has continued to be great! NOw the thing is I just don't want her and I to fall back into any of our old ways... I don't think we will though, the relationship is better than ever... WE enjoy spending time together more than ever and spend all the time together we can, which is a good sign because in the past when things weren't so great we only would hang out like once a week maybe... So once again I ask for any input and want to thank everyone for their input so far...

I'm going through the same thing right now that you were almost exactly.. we dated almost 4 years... we are about 2 months in to the breakup and no contact is not easy at all... life is so different now I can hardly stand it but I'm trying to make changes with my own life to feel good about myself hopefully find a new life as well someday as you can imagine we have many of the same friends and they all get together on weekends to hang out makes it hard for anyone to try to move on and go out and have fun... I try to keep busy though

Me too 4yrs. If only...

Hope things work out for you