Originally Posted by
starbuck8
I'm sorry, but you seem to be having more time on your hands to sit and worry about him, and him being with someone else, instead of going to the Dr. to determine the nature of this lump! Cancer is only speculation on your part, at this point in time. If I found a lump and was so worried about it being cancer, the last thing on my mind would be my loser boyfriend and who he's sleeping with! Why haven't you gone to the Dr.? Honestly, to me this sounds like you are crying wolf in order to get his attention! If it turns out to be cancer, then I am truly sorry, but you won't know until you have a diagnosis will you!? Why are you still sitting around and dwelling on him, instead of getting yourself in to see your Dr.?
We have sat and listened to your story, and we have given you our advice. You don't seem to want to take it. When given a list of things to do to occupy your time, you came up with a bunch of excuses why you couldn't do almost all of these things. It's time to shat or get off the pot!