Dude, I am proud of the efforts you have done in your behalf. I know it wasn't easy, but a sign your protecting your own interest, and putting yourself above her. Now that is a real healthy feat in itself. Bravo!

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But do I need to forgive her to truly move on? How does one accomplish such a feat.

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Stay on the path, and keep taking care of yourself, and time will accomplish that for you.

I have been reading the threads in your link and first of all my commiserations on what has been a tough time for you.
However, congratulations on your mail in regards to the phone, absolutely spot on, like one of my mails to a client sharp concise and to the point that's all that was needed the rest is up to her, and if she asks you anything about it just tell her all the information you require is in the mail please apply! In time you will forgive her because you know what you won't even think abut her, you will look on it as a life experience with no feeling of attachment or resentment and when you get to that stage you have truly moved on :)
I tell you this though and this is fact, she is not worth the effort and good will you have put in, any girl worth her salt would not have taken advantage of the phone plan or any other matter after the way she behaved, she should have had the decency to tell you to sort it out and that she is now paying her own way.
You are beginning to sort things out yourself now, keep with it and don't rebound you are young have loads of time, stick with it keep NC and you will be a different man in no time, strong, independent, more worldly wise and confident.

You half way there believe it or not, keep the NC faith :)