How long did you date her?

4 1/2 years. She was the 'love of my life.' YACK!!

I think no matter how beautiful you are, you were still very insecure in many ways. It is wonderful you are getting help, that’s hard to realize but your doing it BRAVO!! :)
I think it was not only the petty stuff that turned him off, like Facebook and the post ups I am sure it was your insecurity within yourself too!
Right now, I think you should concentrate on YOU and fixing your issues. I do not think you and him (or another man) could be happy again, like it was in the beginning until you fix what’s broken.

Sorry to hear that, but it's get better, so I've been told :)

Right... it does get better!

With a lot of time, heart ache and crying.I didn't know humans had so many tears. I am happy for this site and I will help others as you all have guided me. Thanks deeply.

Yeah, this site does wonders. It really does wonders when you can start to help others (like yours truly). Good therapy. Good luck!

Likewise:)

I'll b back I'm sure.

Well, until then, good night and God bless!

Xo

Quick question: I have belongings at house that aren't that important like my clothing, lingerie, my boots. These are material things that can be replaced and I have multiples of. Everything in that house will remind him of me.

Good... let it. But don't use it as an excuse to call him. Clothing and lingerie are not important by the way... DO NOT worry about his thoughts, just worry about what you can control.

Will do !

If when I leave to go on my vavcation to come back to see if he called should I call back?

Don't get mad at me!

All of this is up to you. I can't tell you what to do. If you want to get over him then NEVER contact him again. I know that isn't realistic though, I couldn't do it.

I wouldn't get mad at you. I don't judge people in these situations. I know how hard it is, but just try not to let him control your actions.

It's not that I don't want to contact him ever again I 'm just afraid to hear what he would say if we did get each other on the phone.

So don't contact him... simple as that.