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Originally Posted by Romefalls19

Dude, seriously...You posted the question, I just was reading the other posts and agreed so you give the attitude. Next time I'll just bypass one of your questions. Thanks for serving the military though

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The way your response was quoting me and then saying OK... Anyways, just came off rude to me. I apologize if I misread your post and took it the wrong way.

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Originally Posted by Romefalls19

The way your response was quoting me and then saying ok....Anyways, just came off rude to me. I apologize if I misread your post and took it the wrong way.

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Oh no!! I don't mean to be rude or anything.

When I mean "Ok..." was all my guy-friends were suggesting to effe some random girls and you said not to, so I'm taking your advise.

To me, I did not want to effe some random girls but I could not think of any reasons besides STDs and HIV/AIDs

Ha, my friends told me the same thing after me n my ex broke up.. Thankfully I didn't listen to them. Women don't like manwh*res

Ok,I'll be real,your girlfriend just needed time.If she didn't love you then why the heck your relationship lasted to damn long!And plus she said that you guys can still be friends and probably in the future you guys cab get together.Right now she needs you the most thats why she dumped you all of a sudden,she might have been caught up in some sort of promlem.Just hang on and wait for her.:D Tell me if anything works out the the future.:DDON'T GIVE UP!

What you are going through is exactly what I am going through... we were friends for almost 7 8 yrs and we entered into a relationship about an yr ago... then she all of a sudden wanted to break up and wanted to stay with me as a friend about 6 months ago... since it was the time of exams I didn't want her to break her head over this issue so I agreed and she said we ll be friends... I agreed to it... but trust me it only filled my head and heart with false hope that she ll come back... I kept on thinking that she ll come back to me and kept on thinking until 2 months ago... I got really frustrated and asked her when we are getting together... that was it... after that she has not spoken to me and she's going after another guy... she dumped me without giving me a reason... when we broke up 6 months ago she didn't give a reason as to why she's breaking up more or less she told she's not got the feelings for me...

For two months now I have been in heart break... same as your situation... not able to eat not able to sleep and sleeping when I get her thoughts... not able to go out not able to concentrate on my studies(the next week my exams are there and I have not even opened the books)... and she's there in my dreams EVERYDAY...

My suggestion is just move on... she's giving you a false hope possibly to just make you feel better by saying that we ll be friends


Make a wise decision and move on buddy...

I know its very difficult because even I am going through the same thing... its easier said that done... but the final truth is you have to move on... even I'm in the same situation as you are... even I am not able to move on but I know that's the way

We just have to accept it and that day when we accept it... we ll move on... even I'm not able to accept it ( all those dreams you built for her , all those intimate moments you have for her everything hurts so much... trust me buddy its hard as hell... am going through the same thing )... just got to accept it and move on...

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Originally Posted by qetuo

What you are going thru is exactly what i am going thru...we were friends for almost 7 8 yrs and we entered into a relationship about an yr ago...then she all of a sudden wanted to break up and wanted to stay with me as a friend about 6 months ago...since it was the time of exams i dint want her to break her head over this issue so i agreed and she said we ll be friends...i agreed to it.....but trust me it only filled my head and heart with false hope that she ll come back....i kept on thinking that she ll come back to me and kept on thinking until 2 months ago....i got really frustrated and asked her when we are getting together ... that was it ...after that she has not spoken to me and she's goin after another guy.....she dumped me without giving me a reason....when we broke up 6 months ago she dint give a reason as to why she's breaking up more or less she told she's not got the feelings for me.....

for two months now i have been in heart break .... same as your situation....not able to eat not able to sleep and sleeping when i get her thoughts ..... not able to go out not able to concentrate on my studies(the next week my exams are there and i have not even opened the books).......and she's there in my dreams EVERYDAY ...

my suggestion is just move on ...she's giving you a false hope possibly to just make u feel better by saying that we ll be friends


make a wise decision and move on buddy...

i know its very difficult coz even i am goin thru the same thing...its easier said that done....but the final truth is you have to move on.....even i m in the same situation as you are ....even i am not able to move on but i know thats the way

we just have to accept it and that day when we accept it ... we ll move on.... even i m not able to accept it ( all those dreams you built for her , all those intimate moments you have for her everything hurts so much ... trust me buddy its hard as hell .... am going thru the same thing )......just got to accept it and move on.....

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This is one of the reasons I am enlisting in the Army.

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Originally Posted by GtzStarGyal

Ok,I'll be real,your girlfriend just needed time.If she didn't love you then why the heck your relationship lasted to damn long!And plus she said that you guys can still be friends and probably in the future you guys cab get together.Right now she needs you the most thats why she dumped you all of a sudden,she might have been caught up in some sort of promlem.Just hang on and wait for her.:D Tell me if anything works out the the future.:DDON'T GIVE UP!

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I don't know if she has any problems but it does not make sense.

She said she does not love me anymore, but her mom said that she decided to stay at home and take online courses except move closer to me...

Want to ask you a question... are you able to accept it now??

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Originally Posted by qetuo

wanna ask you a question ..... are you able to accept it now ???

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Accept the break up?
Pretty much.

Accept the reasons behind?
No idea.

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This is one of the reasons why I am enlisting in the Army.

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Well,the army is definitely going to take your mind off it.

However,I'm not sure that heartbrake is the best reason-if indeed there is such a thing-to join.I can assure you,there will be times you're going to feel sorry as hell for doing it.There will be times you'll be like "Oh,man how stupid am I to go through all this sh!t when I could have been having a good time back home.And all this over &$&&* (name of girl)".

The army is no joke.Do some serious thinking before making your mind up.

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Well,the army is definitely gonna take your mind off it.

However,I'm not sure that heartbrake is the best reason-if indeed there is such a thing-to join.I can assure you,there will be times you're gonna feel sorry as hell for doing it.There will be times you'll be like "Oh,man how stupid am I to go through all this sh!t when I could have been having a good time back home.And all this over &$&&* (name of girl)".

The army is no joke.Do some serious thinking before making your mind up.

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I am being serious...

[QUOTE=hjpan
Her mom said that she decided to stay at home and take online courses except move closer to me..

This statement let me knows that you have not accepting that's it over otherwise you would worry about what school she was suppose to attend or where she lives, do you think she cares about what's going on in your life?

You seem like my friend who recently got dumped, me and friends tell her the same thing everyday to where you just want to shake some sense into her because its gets ignoring sometime when you give people advice and they don't use it. Do u think your friends&family what to see you continue your life like this, the only thing your serious it seems to me is joining the army,

[QUOTE=liz28][QUOTE=hjpan
her mom said that she decided to stay at home and take online courses except move closer to me..

This statement let me knows that you have not accepting that's it over otherwise you would worry about what school she was suppose to attend or where she lives, do you think she cares about what's going on in your life?

You seem like my friend who recently got dumped, me and friends tell her the same thing everyday to where you just wanna shake some sense into her because its gets ignoring sometime when you give people advice and they dont use it. Do u think your friends&family what to see you continue your life like this, the only thing your serious it seems to me is joining the army,[/QUOTE]

Maybe because I'm still stuck in denial stage =/

Dang...

The urge to call my ex is really strong =/

I used to talk to her during night times D:
We'd talk about what we did today... and future plans...

*sigh*

*sigh*
Sometimes I still miss her... I have the urge to just call her up =/

You'll miss her forever. You'll feel urges your whole life... not just for her, lots of things that are bad for you.

You resist urges, ignore them, if they are dumb. Well, try to... hehe. (still remembers jumping off the barn at 13 years old... seemed smart at the time)

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Originally Posted by JBeaucaire

You'll miss her forever. You'll feel urges your whole life...not just for her, lots of things that are bad for you.

You resist urges, ignore them, if they are dumb. Well, try to...hehe. (still remembers jumping off the barn at 13 years old...seemed smart at the time)

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True...

7 days of no contact~

I am struggling not to call her... the urge is pretty demanding

Your going struggle but your doing good, keep it up!