Best to you my friend, standing for something, your not likely to fall for just anything.

I just read your ORIGINAL posts.

I wanted to see if she was reaching out and deserved to be rewarded for her effort.

Well, first off, you are doing the right thing having kept silent.

Second, there is NO WAY you should deal with her. She is a mess. And a weight on you.
Don't look back. Delete all contact.

She is an attention-starved ding-bat.

Her loss is going to be a lifetime one. Your gain is every day she is not in your new life!