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Cute GIF...


Im feeling a little down today.. little lonely for some reason... :(

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Originally Posted by chris28

cute GIF....


Im feeling a lil down 2day.. lil lonely for some reason... :(

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Well if you ever up for chatting IM ME, later or something.. I don't mind...

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Originally Posted by chris28

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Im feeling a lil down 2day.. lil lonely for some reason... :(

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Like it Jolie!

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Originally Posted by friend4u178

Like it Jolie!

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I thought it was cute, Hope I got a smile out of you!

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I thought it was cute,, Hope I got a smile out of ya!

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You certainly did , smiling as we speak :-)
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Where did you get it from?

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Originally Posted by friend4u178

Where did you get it from?

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If I tell you then I will have to kill you lol..


Si je vous this alors j'aurai à vous tuer.. lol

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Just kidding I got it from photobucket.com

[QUOTE=jolienoire]If I tell you then I will have to kill you lol..

LOL :-) Thanks!

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Originally Posted by jolienoire

If I tell ya then I will have to kill ya lol..

LOL :-) Thanks!

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So how have you been since your breakup? Are you in a new relationship? Just curious I am bored.

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so how have you been since your breakup? are you in a new relationship? Just curious I am bored.

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I'm fine thanks , not in anything new at the moment though. Have you written a post on yours? Might have to come over there and have a chat rather than hijacking Chris's post here. Sorry Chris!

Yes that's right! Get your own room! Lol. Nah us lot have got a pretty good understanding going on at the minute. It's really helping me, you guys are great. As the old saying goes, "All for one and one for all!"

Please lets all talk it up...


Thank god yesterday is over.. Last night a old buddy told me he was at a club with my ex and witnessed her kissed a guy. OK so I no its over and its now 7 weeks but still it bothered me a lot . I wanted to call her and yell but then I was like how, why? Were not dating. So yes the nights over I feel better but it killed me for hours :(


I need to find a nice girl to hang with ughhhh

Your still not over her are you? Be honest, if she came running back today you would jump for joy at the fact and you'd have her back. I'll be honest, that's how I feel at the moment. The only difference is, my ex doesn't really have any close friends to go out on a night with or go to clubs, only the odd night out with uni folks. So I'm really confused in what she enjoys doing? I'm into week 4...

Chris, you hit it on the head I'm definitely not totally over her. I will tell you one thing she has a million friends gos clubbing every week 2 times a week and I do miss her. Im okie but I did get very upset that she's moving on . I think I need a date lol

A date for me would just feel like a rebound, it would for you too. It'd probably be over in a flash. It definitely is worth trying to meet new girls though. That's the hard part for me. My confidence is at zero.

After all this my confidence is very low also... plus I've been in relationships for like 12 years not str8t but maybee a year off here and there but for the most part so its going to be weird jumping back in. The newness is allways fun but its still weird.

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after all this my confidence is very low also .... plus ive been in relationships for like 12 years not str8t but maybee a year off here and there but for the most part so its going to be weird jumpin back in. The newness is allways fun but its still weird.

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Well being a woman I must say that the clubbing thing will get tired, she needs to be fulfilled but in the wrong way.. Seems to me she is crying out for attention... Don't be jealous because the guys you meet in a club or never the ones you want to establish a relationship with.. All this clubbing just says she is not happy.. Getting drunk and meeting strangers is her way of coping although she may have broke up with you she might get lonely but knows that she doesn't want to go back to you... because she thinks she is missing out on something, But one day when she is not partying and she actually sits and think with a clear mind she will think about what has happened... That's what I think when I got divorced I was the same way.. the only difference is that I didn't hook up with anyone I met.. But after the going out got bored I was ready to settle down and date again... I GOT IT OUT OF MY SYSTEM...

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Chris, u hit it on the head im definatly not totally over her. I will tell u one thing she has a million friends gos clubbing every week 2 times a week and i do miss her. Im okie but I did get very upset that shes movin on . I think i need a date lol

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Basically she is replacing the GAP
Replacing the time you normally spend with your ex doing something conducive to your happiness and fulfillment. The objective here is to regain a sense of purpose in something new.