You have to be patient Monica , there is no time frame and everyone heals differently. It's not easy , but each day it will get that little bit better , then weeks will pass and then months.

You will feel good about this eventually I promise , and then you'll come back and read your story and think WOW was I really that stuck up on this loser and smile.

Well he went to my house the other night again... I told him a had a boyfriend and he left without even saying anything... why do I feel so confused... I thought I would feel better after telling him that but I don't! Now I have another problem. I'm dating this new guy and he's been really nice to me but I don't trust him... is that bad? He treats me really good and he's been calling me every night but yesterday he didn't! What should I do?

You may have jumped into another relatonship too soon after the last one.
Take this new one one day at a time.
Maybe he was busy and did not have a chance to call, but again just take things slowly.

Maybe you need more time between b/f's.

Well, I haven't heard anything about him in over 2 months already.. but in the past couple of days I've been feeling really sad and anxious... been thinking of him a lot and dreaming of him as well... I don't know what to do anymore.. we broke up 8 months ago and I still feel like this.. I don't think it's normal.. HELP!!

Read some of the other posts here, and you'll know that it ain't easy breaking up, and moving on. Click on the links in my signature, and get some good suggestions on what to do.

Well, it's been a long while already and I'm now in a new relationship with another guy... but I sometimes think of my EX... I don't feel the same way anymore but I do think about him sometimes and I wonder if I made the right decision... it's frustrating! I'm I going to feel this way always? And as for my new boyfriend, I don't trust him! Is this normal?

Wait wait wait!

I did this to my girlfriend 3 times and I loved her to bits. I got terrified of committing myself and I still don't know why. My only reason is because she never told me when she was upset and what she wanted to do. If he comes back give it a chance, but put your foot down. I wanted that so much from my ex but in the end she ran away. I'm not a dirtbag and it was never about anyone else. I just got scared. Terrified of meeting her parents because I had dumped her before.

In fact, he does sound like a jerk. I never thought about another girl and if I had I wouldn't have ran back to my ex.

Obviously you have jumped into relationships way too early! You have had 2 relationships in 8 months after a serious commitment. You jump right back into a relationship and you haven't healed from your original one, isn't that apparent at all? You are doing nothing but setting yourself up for a failed relationship. It is also delaying the mourning and then when this relationship ends, you will be hit with the sadness of all 3, not exactly the best thing.

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Mon3yca15, well, it's been a long while already and I'm now in a new relationship with another guy...

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Its only been 8 months, after a 5 year relationship..

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But I sometimes think of my EX... I don't feel the same way anymore but I do think about him sometimes and I wonder if I made the right decision...

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Your getting there, but have a ways to go.

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It's frustrating! I'm I going to feel this way always?

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No, and be patient, it takes time.

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And as for my new boyfriend, I don't trust him! Is this normal?

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Your healing is incomplete and the last thing you need is a new relationship.