I think its her life, and none of your business, and speculating about it is a perfect waste of your time. Absolutely no good can come of this and speaking to her friends about her is not a great sign.
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I think its her life, and none of your business, and speculating about it is a perfect waste of your time. Absolutely no good can come of this and speaking to her friends about her is not a great sign.
Her friend came to me.
I got to agree with Talaniman. Now, she shouldn`t be your concern, I mean about her ways. What she does, what she did, what she will do about HER life, it`s her own business. If you heard that, well I know that sucks since you still have feelings around, but in the mid term you should be happy you save yourself from a gold digger.
What I should be concerned is if she gets married with this guy, well it would be to deal something it`s favorable for both of us about how to be close to your child.
She's not the one for you, but your little guy IS. You must separate this feelings now.
Your reply to well meaning friendsQuote:
her friend came to me.
I DON'T WANNA HEAR IT!!!
Come back from hospital stay, and what a mess. Sorry you're all rattled, but listen up!Quote:
Originally Posted by crushedovernover
What the guy does and has is NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS.
Should you be worried... NO not about her... be concerned for your son.
You claim you know it's over... That's BULL**** You are in DENIAL
Do we think it is a phase... WHO CARES! It's her life.. YOU are also going through PHASES and should be working on them and not dumb speculation about her life.
You guess she's in a long distance relationship... STOP guessing what she thinks, feels, or does not feel.
She is so nieve?????? Look in the mirror and observe a real nieve person!
This is what THIS woman thinks.. what's more.. I think that you should shift your priorities to yourself and your son. No matter what she does, you will always be his father and you have rights... secure those rights and work on securing a stable and loving future (no matter where he is) THIS IS LIFE.. and many fathers have to share their children. So.. no matter what she does, SUCK IT UP and MOVE ON. If she is a gold-digger, so be it, as long as she takes good care of your son.
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Well, she probably knew how you would act and was not ready for a drama.Quote:
Originally Posted by crushedovernover
She is his mother, and she can take him anywhere she wishes. You are not divorced with dual custody. Now, if she is going to live there, she might have to ask for your permission through legal channels.
Did you work on any list yet? The reasons for being angry at her should be longer than the list of all the wonderful times you had by now. Getting upset and cleaning that mental house of your's is very important so keep on working at it. Don't fall into a fantasy "what if" world.. it's not going to do you any good. Honey, face reality and grow from here - the sooner, the better.
http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/4/4_14_6.gifAnger needs a vent, look for a safe way to release it.
Talaniman... got the spread it message again.Quote:
Originally Posted by talaniman
Listen up Crushed... you are wasting way too much time with your speculations and guesses... Your main concern should be yourself (and I don't mean a better self with her and the kid.. that's a fantasy) Work on reality and dream new dreams.
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